did you select you love to get married?
By bingchen
@bingchen (1119)
China
December 23, 2009 6:44am CST
i have mareied for several months now,my husband love me deeply and look after me carefully,so this make me satisfied,when i select him become my husband because of his goodness and careness for me.but i know it is not love,but i still select him.because his love make me quite in my mind and dont feel sad,at least he devoted all of thing for me.but other people still reject what i do and think that we would not be together for along,as for you,did you select you love to get married or not?
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6 responses
@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
23 Dec 09
Well, it is better than to be left with no choice at all as it say by many people life could be lonely without someone to share of and even you never love him. The love would be the one to find you and in your cases your husband love you and through the time you were together you could feel his love and concern that you feel secure. The love then could be study and develop which happen in your situation as sometimes their is a need to wish that the one you marry is truly love by you and not just a facade..
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@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
hi bingchen,
Yeah, that really important now days to be practical. though, you may not feel in love but you feel his love surrounds you which matter most.Have a Merry Christmas and happy new Year.
@Angelindisguise (378)
• India
23 Dec 09
Hi,
I have been married for 18years.
My husband do love me.
He knows me very well.
Yes,i did love to get married.
For me he was my 1st love.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
24 Dec 09
hi bingchen yes I did marry for love, I am here in the US and in the state of California. He made me laugh, he cheered me up,he loved me unconditionally and thats even better than my own parents.We were married for 43 years. we had our ups and downs but we loved each other and we survived. Are you so sure you do not love him as your words make me think you really do, love isnt Always flash and bang sometimes you meet the right person who is goodness and cares for you and makes you feel like you have known him forever.I bet when it comes down to it you do love your husbAnd very much. phooey on what others say,if you and your husband are happy that is all that counts. 
@celebratelifeh (1142)
• China
24 Dec 09
i'd like to select the one who i loved and also love me on the same time. if not that's no need to get married in hurry .since you appreciated your husband's goodness and careness for you so you may fall in love with him finally or you just need the man loved you and that' ok also.
@dorannmwin (36392)
• United States
27 Dec 09
I selected to get married to my husband because he loved me in a way that no one else I've ever known has loved me. He was and still is supportive of my every decision. He is very different from any other person that I've ever known in my life. I know that there are several places in this world where you are expected to get married to a certain person whether there is love or not, and I just don't think that would work for me. I believe that without love a marriage cannot exist.
@bingchen (1119)
• China
29 Dec 09
actually without love a marriage can exist many family.including me.i dont know what it is happy in my family and i dont believe happy life would be happened around me.maybe what i select is wrong from start,but i need a secure marriage to maintain my life.
@legendforever4 (137)
• India
24 Dec 09
here selection is an important thing ...even to understand the second we need to select ,if i get this kind of i would like marry my loved one am i clear???
