Will you tell your girlfriend or boyfriend your past experrience?
By pengyachu
@pengyachu (296)
China
December 23, 2009 8:46pm CST
After a period of romance and painful struggle,you will have some new friends and new sweethearts.The days you spend will be sweet and pleasurable.Maybe he or her is smart enough not to ask your past,though eager to know it how deep you fell in love with someone and how you split up.Will you tell him or her?
Will you hide it,keep silent or choose to delete that part of memory?
6 responses
@shivamkapila (764)
• India
25 Dec 09
yes it is required you to tell about your past experience if you are going to be a part of another relationships dear....I think the trust is huge factor in every relationships as well
@lahari (133)
• India
25 Dec 09
i believe in looking forward. If you have completely come out of your past relations and there aren't any possibilities of it shadowing your future then you can simply not talk about it. but if you think that relation or the person or the memories are still important to you and do hold a place in your heart(be it a favorable one or reproachable one) then you should speak up. so,if you r completely neutral about it now then forget it and move ahead..
@shavvy (86)
• India
24 Dec 09
yeah its very important in a relation to share your every painful & happy momemts with your partner, i am having very trustful relation with my partner and both having good understanding, past is past, so never make your past come into your future. there is nothing to hide about past things if your partner is comfortable with, you can speak to him/her and wipe out the past memories and move on...
@bingchen (1119)
• China
24 Dec 09
i can tell my boyfriend my post experience.although the past love would be secret for you.but as for him,he have right to know truth and understand myself fully.i remember that my husband pursuit me,i chould not accept him.i talk about all of thing to him and let him thing about and make a decision.so i think that if your partner who really love you,he could not care about your past.you still gain his love.
@maria1081 (1251)
• Philippines
24 Dec 09
Im willing to share it with him if he only ask me. I would feel uncomfortable at first but as open up I will be more at peace. Knowing and accepting one's past may it be good or bad will strenghtened the relationship's foundation. I myself dont want to live with lies and pretentions. Sometimes too much honesty can hurt someone but thats the only way to fully trust someone too.