Is Edward and Bella's romance REALISTIC?

Okay so I haven't read any of the twilight books, just like I haven't read any of the Harry Potter books. But I did like the first movie, I haven't seen the second one yet. I don't think that the characters edward and bella have a realistic romance. I mean if I woke up and the guy I had a crush on was standing over my bed in the middle of the night I might think differently about him. I do agree that love is blind and there is real love, but human beings are also hard wired with a protection instinct that keeps most people out of danger. That combined with the fact that vampires aren't real and the story is fictitious means to me that their relationship is unrealistic. It is really an analogy for the love triangle in general. Archetypal phycology would identify each of the characters as a facet of one person's phyche in this case the author's, as such: Bella is the author's sense of self. Edward is the predator or dark man archetype. Jacob is the Animus. Bella's loving of Edward is an indicator of the authors compulsion towards self destructive behavior. Bella's confusion between her feelings towards Edward and her feelings toward Jacob indicate the struggle between the tendancy to self destruct and the instinct to preserve the self in a balanced state.

I agree that the love triangle can happen. She loved Jacob, but not at all in the way that she loved Edward. But Jacob loved Bella, for a while anyway, as more than a friend. I believe that someone can love you so much that they would die for you. I believe there is love out there like that. I have experienced it. The romance can die if not kept up. The books don't reflect how hard it can be to keep the romance up.

Yes,Is Very Realistic,Some Parts Is Like My Own Story!!!! I Think Is The Secret Of Twilight,It Seams Natural,Like The Life & Not Only a Vampires Story!!!! Nice Day Twilighters!!!!