Age gap in relationships..................
@Angelindisguise (378)
India
9 responses
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
25 Dec 09
In my opinion, I think Age gap in a relationship may matter but it depends on one's personal choice. If there is a huge age gap in a relationship, many unexpected differences be evident but it depends how they manage to balance a harmonious and happy relationship.
love is striking in any person, and if you are in love, the possibly all the things you want to have in a good relationship will be seen in efforts. If the person is ready to make sacrifices and adjustments to hold on the relationship they got, then this gap problems will never be a big issue for them. For, both of them are doing their best to overcome the said trials and irregularities.
Love is huge, cannot be measured nor instructed. It never chooses people nor discriminate any person with whom to love. Love is for all. Factors that may affect a relationship for a worst scenario can be fixed as long both of them are willing to make an effort to fix the problem especially their personal indifference.
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@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
25 Dec 09
Thank you for accepting my post as best response.
Age is only a number. What is most important is the kind of Person in that age. His totality as a well being..
advance HAPPY NEW YEAR~!@##
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@syankee525 (6261)
• United States
25 Dec 09
i think it depends on the age of the people. now if the guy is like in his mid 20's say 26 and up dating a female who is 18 or younger is wrong, even if it was switch around. then its not right. but if they are say 26 and the other is older then its whatever
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@bingchen (1119)
• China
28 Dec 09
i think that the huge age gap in a relationship.including my parents and me.there is large gap between us.we have different views and opinions for many things,so we often quarrel for it,but at last they could recieve my views and opinions.because i make the dicision at last,so i often adhere what i want.so i think that the huge gap really matter in a relationship.
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@novelcai (600)
• Philippines
25 Dec 09
age doesnt matter. its really depends on the person. there are some people (specially guys)that the maturity is late than to women. and it also on how are parents build us. my dad is 15yrs older than to my mom. but sometimes my dad didnt trust my mom in decision making.
• Singapore
28 Dec 09
Hi Angelindisguise,
As far as you love each other age gap doesn't matter.. Afterall they say 'Everything is fair in Love..' However as per me it should not more than 5 years as there are chances that your interests, likes and dislikes may differ significantly. Yet I have seen couples having age gap as much as 20 years and still having a happy and cheerful relationship. Luck may also play its role so have a good luck.. :)
@Sandra1952 (6047)
• Spain
25 Dec 09
My first husband was a year older than me, and the marriage eventually ended in divorce. My second husband is 18 my senior, and I only ever notice the age difference if he mentions it, and then I tell him it's irrelevant. Everyone we meet has difficulty believing Tony's 76, as he has a very young outlook on life and is always smiling. Friends who knew my first husband as well say he was more of an old man, as he was very set in his ways and was always trying to control what I did and who I saw.
Tony gives me the freedom to be myself, and he's always telling me, and anyone else who will listen, how he could never imagine life without me by his side. My mother, who was 10 years younger than my father, had a saying: 'It's better to be an old man's darling than a young man's slave.' As in so many other things, Mother was right!
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
25 Dec 09
Hi Angelindisguise,To a person who really feels in love,no matter age gap is,it wont bothers.Have a nice day!
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