Home alone!
By alpha7
@alpha7 (1910)
France
24 responses
@aireanna18 (1914)
• United States
26 Dec 09
Of the past four years, I have spent three Christmas alone. There was the one year that I got what I later realize was the pitty invite to a coworkers house. It was so awkward. I felt like I was the person out of place. The first year that I spent Christmas alone I pretty much tried to deny that it was Christmas it was a pretty painful Christmas. This year it was me and TIgger (the cat) home alone together. It was okay! A normal day, we did not decorate or anything just do not have the time with finishing up my Master's degree. Actually, I need to look at the AEPA Subject Exam for Elementary Eduation. At least this morning when I woke up I could admit it was Christmas as I rolled over and told Tigger Merry Christmas.
By next year, i will be done with school, so I am hoping to decorate and maybe celebrate a little. Too me Christmas is about spending it with people you love. Who knows maybe by this time next year I will have decided to start dating again (just broke up from a long term relationship 2 months ago). Right now I am chosing to take things one day at a time. It is the only way I can face life right now!
aireanna18's home page: http://www.xomba.com/user/aireanna
@alpha7 (1910)
• France
27 Dec 09
Be happy aireanna18,life is all about disappointments,experience and learning,we all learn everyday.I understand how boring it could be with your experience with your past relationship,i know next christmas will be great,i bet you!Thank you for your contribution and have a wonderful evening.
@CelticSoulSister (1640)
• Southend-On-Sea, England
25 Dec 09
I have spent this Christmas totally alone, as I have done every Christmas since 1987. I prefer my own company over the Christmas period, as it means I can truly relax and do exactly as I please without having to worry about doing something round other people's houses out of politeness, which I may hate yet I have to pretend not to hate just to be good-mannered. I like peace & quiet, I like to eat my own food, play my own music, dress how I please and do exactly what I want. I can stay in bed the whole time if I wish, and I don't have to worry about being at anybody's house at a certain time, then trying to invent excuses for when I have had enough and want to leave. I shall be spending as many Christmases alone in the future as I possibly can manage.
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@suesan35 (478)
• Sri Lanka
28 Dec 09
Hi alpha: I would have been Home alone this christmas if not for the fact that a whole heap of relatives and friends decided to crash land at my home on Christmas day. I had to do lunch and stuff; but it was fun and it also gave me a nice warm feeling that i had not been forgotten. However, although I do not mind being alone every days of the year including on my birthday, I just don't want to be alone on Christmas Day and I'll make sure it wont happen again. Hope you had a wonderful christmas and was not left "Home alone"
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@redstard1984 (133)
• China
28 Dec 09
well, i just one of them who alone in the house at christmas day, no one want to have a Christmas like that, you will feel borning, my parents are far away from me, and i should work at these day for some speciall reason, i sure that next Christmas will not like that..
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@magnus1 (18)
• United States
25 Dec 09
Sometimes we found ourselves in situations that we ask why me. My husband left the house to be with his family today living me alone in the house,but thank God i canrun around with my 17months old in the house.So my answer to your question is Yes i will do it again! i did not choose to be alone today but since he went out i have no choice than to be happy and greateful to God for the life he gave me.
magnus1
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@taheraa (1545)
• Giza, Egypt
27 Dec 09
Hi, alpha7:
calibrating christmas means for me that another year has been passed, so first i like to gather with my family, friends start the new year by smilling, injoying and playing. but after that i like to be alone, just to remember all things had been happenend to me either god or bad, to get a lisons for my next new year
@fifileigh (3615)
• United States
27 Dec 09
i live alone and i have a cat, but my family live 20 miles away. and i am busy doing my own things that i dont really feel alone. i just relaxed and got some work done.
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@cream97 (29087)
• United States
25 Dec 09
Hi, alpha7. I did not spend my day alone. My kids were at home with me. My husband was too. Next year, my kids will be at home with me. I don't think that I could ever have Christmas spent alone by myself. There is bound to be someone at home with me.
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@CelticSoulSister (1640)
• Southend-On-Sea, England
25 Dec 09
I have spent this Christmas totally alone, as I have done every Christmas since 1987. I prefer my own company over the Christmas period, as it means I can truly relax and do exactly as I please without having to worry about doing something round other people's houses out of politeness, which I may hate yet I have to pretend not to hate just to be good-mannered. I like peace & quiet, I like to eat my own food, play my own music, dress how I please and do exactly what I want. I can stay in bed the whole time if I wish, and I don't have to worry about being at anybody's house at a certain time, then trying to invent excuses for when I have had enough and want to leave. I shall be spending as many Christmases alone in the future as I possibly can manage.
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@ronnyb (6113)
• Jamaica
26 Dec 09
Well I spent christmas alone but it was by choice .I didnt want to be travelling on christmas day .In addition to which I wa stired form the weeks activities and just wanted some time alone .I hope that by next year I wont be spending my christmas alone
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@shivamkapila (764)
• India
25 Dec 09
Well for that every Christmas day i see a home alone movies at my home with my family they are good and moreover the little kid kevin was so sweet in all the parts
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@alpha7 (1910)
• France
25 Dec 09
Thank you for that.Most people do not find the season a time to relax though,but spending time with their friends and most especially,their families.So, if you can still have the time to relax,it would be very fantastic and worth it.Have a good evening Anneleia.
@caier8384 (15)
• China
25 Dec 09
I'm not alone .but it's worse . i must study today.because the exam on Monday .i stay with many people in the classroom .some of them are preparing their final examination .most of them are preparing the entrance exams for postgraduate schools . i went out of my school today ,the festive spirit is good .I'm in china ,and Christmas day has been important to us. do you celebrate the spring festival of china ?
@Picquarian (724)
• United States
29 Dec 09
Although I did not spend Christmas alone this year, I have before in the past. Although many people are okay with being alone during the holidays, I felt alone and sad (the rest of my family was out of the state). I tried to make the best of it by cooking myself a nice meal and watching Christmas specials on television.
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@cerebellum (3863)
• United States
27 Dec 09
I wasn't alone for Christmas, but I probably will be for New Years Eve. It doesn't really matter to me. I always hated New Years Eve anyway, people try so hard to have a good time it's depressing. Not to mention I don't like being around a bunch of drunks. I am disabled and there are a lot of places I can't go and it will be easier to stay home anyway.
@joro1best (222)
• Bulgaria
25 Dec 09
Hello alpha7!
I`m sitting just for a sec and going to celebrate christmas with my family..
But anyway i have celebrated christmas home alone,watching the film home alone maybe 2 times :P But i was alone only the first time,and i did not invite any friends,because i wanted to chat,with friends,not to make a cool party at home .. But the second time i invited 4 friends..We eated,celebrated,put some presents under the holiday tree :P But i don`t think ill be alone again,because my family is now getting dismission for the holidays :) But actually celebrating christmas alone is not so bad,because you can celebrate it how you want..You can listen to music..You can invite friends..So ill get up because we are gonna put the presents for opening under the tree,because we will open them soon :)
Happy holidays - joro1best
@myramae19 (667)
• Philippines
26 Dec 09
I did not spent christmas alone, my son is with me, my parents in-law and sister in-law with our two pets name tarzan/darna. while we're eating midnight i just missed my husband who's working out of the country, and my family as well. later on he called and greet me merry christmas.hope we will spend christmas together next year.:)
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