Do you laugh when you get hurt by your lover?

Are you sure she was acting the whole time? I can't imagine anyone investing 4 years of their life into pretending to love someone just for the heck of it. I'm sure she loved you and for whatever reasons you grew apart.

It hurts a lot, knowing that the person you love for 4 years is just acting loving you. How that happen? I think she love you also but not the way that you love her. If she's acting for that 4 years of relationship then you really have to bow for what she did. Your right Heads off but it kind of hard to do that. May I know her reason for doing that. Have she this to you that she just acting? Yeah that's all you can do is to laugh bout that.

hai skalijnp, you know what, I also laugh when hurt by my lover..judging from her respond, I know its kind of weird..but honestly, its some sort of a defense mechanism which can ease the pain...so ladies, now you know eh? haha..

We all respond to stressful situations differently.I guess you are still in the "delayed reaction" stage wherein your mind is still trying to process your emotions. This is the body's way of responding to a very difficult emotion, a defense mechanism. It will take time, but sooner or later, you will be feeling the aftermath of rejection. I was just wondering why the girl took four years to break it off. If it were me, If I don't like a guy, you don't to prolong the agony. You have to tell him right away. The most for me to determine if a guy is worth it is after two to three dates.

I tend to always say "ow" whenever she hurts me, even when it didn't actually hurt, it's just a natural reaction, but I usually laugh afterwards (unless I'm bleeding or something similar). But then she always gets really upset and apologises profusely no matter how much I tell her I'm fine, which makes me laugh even more, yet she still never believes I'm alright. And I've also noticed I tend to say "ow" whenever someone hits the door or when I drop my fork or things like that... I have no idea why, but it's always good for a laugh.

Hi skalijnp, I know you don't like her now because she hurts you but first love is first love we never forget whole life i also like one person but i like him from 5 years and i never hurts him i really feel bad for you. now a days we are not really close to each other because some misunderstanding with us.but i really love him.you are a nice person and god may bless you some person say that god always right with us.

Hi, skalijnp. I am very sorry to hear that your lover has played you all of this time. That was very mean of her. If I was you, I would just move on and save your tears. I guess with you, you are laughing because you have felt stupid. But she will be soon laughed at, when she discovers that the man she threw away is no longer in love with her, but with someone else. That will be the joke. Now who is laughing at who?

The same thing happened to my guy friend. He and his girlfriend are together for many years, I think more than two years. He was also deceived by his ex-girlfriend (now) that they are doing good together but actually she was cheating him for so long. I asked him how could you not know? Are you that dumb to be cheated like that? then he answered me he was blinded and the girl was really a good actress and manipulator.

I think maybe you still love her very much though she hurt you.Now you know she doesnt love you ,the best thing you can do is leave her. If I hurt by my honey,I ignore him first .When he think about it clearly,he maybe come back to me.Maybe sometimes it is misunderstanding.We need communication.