Is it too much to ask?
By atebuds
@atebuds (187)
Philippines
December 25, 2009 10:27am CST
Is is too much to ask for a little love and attention from someone dear to you? I don't know why but I feel so hurt when I think I love someone and I don't feel my love being reciprocated. Or at least letting me know that they like me too. Am I just being too emotional?
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5 responses
@musicman6 (2407)
• United States
25 Dec 09
Yes, you are being too emotional ! The road is long, and life is too short, to be wasting time on an individual like this ! In life you will run into many problems anyway, why start out with problems!
I learned this, but after many years of strife, no one ever told me how it really was!
@atebuds (187)
• Philippines
26 Dec 09
My message from God in Facebook:
On this day, God wants you to know...
...that it's in your heart that knows who loves you, not your ears or eyes. Listen to the words, and you can be fooled. Look at the actions, and you can be fooled. Feel deeply into your heart, and then you will know the truth. Who makes your heart soar now? Well, what are you waiting for?
Answered prayer!
Thank you, musicman6!
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@vijayanths (7877)
• India
25 Dec 09
hi atebuds, I am sorry to hear that. If it about a man you are talking about I want to tell a few words now. men express their love and feelings during the initial period of the relationship. After that they think it is understood and they stop expressing. That does not mean they don't love you.
@OYGAK2005 (371)
• Saudi Arabia
25 Dec 09
hi....it is very hard to every one ,olso to girls...i know your case and now you need know how feel to you that you loved person.so you wouldn't in a rush said to loved him...if you that they really like you it not make you hurt again and if they to not good maybe it make you much hurt too.so you wait a period of time....good luck...
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
25 Dec 09
In my opinion, It is normal for any person who fall in love to ask love in return. It is a compensation of one's feeling. Being rewarded and accepted is the best feeling a person may wanted to have been.
But, sometimes there are person who are introvert about their real feelings. Some are insensitive. That is really floating like an air .
Nothing is too much to ask if in love because a person do love for many reasons they can show love. When a person love you, you do not need to ask for it, instead give to you right away with no exceptions. Unless, that person is not aware about your love.
You are in pain maybe because you have realized about your sacrifices and your love participation to you. Whatever it is, let the person know what you feel and from the answers, then you can conclude for your unanswered thoughts.
Every person has a big part being emotional in them. What you are feeling right now is the same other people feel when they are in love. It only differ in the situation concerned and people behind it.
Whatever be the outcome, accept things in a positive way. When both of you had a clear communication, from then you know where and what will be your next step in life.
Advance happy new year and God bless~!@#
@eubilisa (211)
• Philippines
26 Dec 09
Well, it depends actually but I think its okay for us to expect something from our loved one most specially if you know in yourself that you give all because when you we're in a relationship we want to be appreciated even in small things and that's fine. I don't think it's normal though that a person isn't secure of the relationship and I think both parties should make an effort to reassure that everything is okay or else the two of you will be tired of each other.