Unfaithful husband?.......Unfaithful wife?

Philippines
December 26, 2009 11:56pm CST
how will you know if your wife or husband is unfaithful or cheating on you? is "I'm Sorry" is enough to forgive him or her?
1 response
@natnickeep (2336)
• United States
27 Dec 09
You never know for sure unless you catch them or they tell you. I think I would forgive if it is worth forgiving. A lot depends. It all depends on the situation. Like how long you have been with the person and why they cheated. If they did it because they don't love you and don't want to be with you then no I wouldn't stay but I would forgive. If they did it because they were drunk or something and she was there and I wasn't then I probably would forgive and stay.
• Philippines
27 Dec 09
if he say he dont love you anymore, you just leave? you will not fight for your rights as a wife? how about the kids feelings?
• United States
27 Dec 09
Fight for what? To be with a man who doesn't love me. We would then in return just have problems and that would effect our children more than breaking up. I would never stay with a man if he said he didn't love me and meant it. That would be a waste of my life and time I could be spending finding someone who will love me. Which thank goodness I have.
• Philippines
27 Dec 09
happy to hear you found someone... my apology because with this topic, you remember what happened to your past. it's unintentional. now, its up to you if your going to reply again or not. if he's drunk it is a reason to do something bad/silly? bec he is not aware of what he's doing? what if he continue the relationship with the girl. but keeps on denying it's not true. do you think he still love w/ his wife?