Single mom are more wiser than those who are single?
By shellback
@shellback (864)
Philippines
December 27, 2009 9:31pm CST
When it comes to personal experience, single mom are considered to be more careful or wiser regarding decision making, parenting and any other family related things, I observed it with many of my friends who are single mom today, what can you say?
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@myramae19 (667)
• Philippines
30 Dec 09
I would say yes. Because single moms had learned from their experience, they gave birth, been broken,hurts.failed.I have also observed this from a lot of single moms.
when it comes to parenting single knows nothing, because they never experience what the single mom went through....
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@shellback (864)
• Philippines
31 Dec 09
I'm agree with that, single mom say experience is the best teacher ever, truly giving a parenting guidance to a child could be difficult for a single woman, no offense for a singles here, but most saying that they're teach by their mistakes. 
@hagirl (1295)
• United States
28 Dec 09
I commend your friends being great single moms but I have seen single and married moms that really suck.... I think it depends upon the person and how strong willed they are for their children..... The wiseness sometimes doesn't come from the mind, it comes from the heart..... Tell your friends to keep on being good mothers and to protect their children we do not have enough mothers out there married or single who would do anything for children....
@shellback (864)
• Philippines
28 Dec 09
What I mention here is about right parenting done by single mom, you can cite what you have experience being on what status in life you have, actually I've a lot of friends who are married, single and separated, they discussed about their life on parenting and I found out that they're different the way they are before, now, your comment is good, it depends on what the woman feels and think but not all women are having the same feeling like what you said...
@shellback (864)
• Philippines
30 Dec 09
Way back before they're getting married, I see the same regarding their moral, I mean as of today they're more improving their ways on how to make life simple, values are on their heart even before, they say learning from your mistake commit achievement.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
28 Dec 09
hi shellback I think it all depends on each person, there are
some good married moms and some good single moms, and a lot of bad moms in both categories. praise your friends for being smart and good moms. I feel for single moms as they have to take the whole thing on themselves,no man to share the problems but most do do an excellent job so thats something they have a right to be proud of themselves.
@shellback (864)
• Philippines
30 Dec 09
Yes it depends, they're free to choose what kind of living they want, its on their heart and mind to achieve what they want in life, actually its hard being a single mom, its sweat and tears they say but my friends are lucky, they know how to handle the situation even when hard times occurs, truly it depends on the person, thanks..
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
30 Dec 09
It depends on the person, I know a couple of single moms who are not such great peopole or mom's at all. But I think a single mom who cares deeply for her children will always consider her children first, and every decision she makes will revolve around the child. Much the same as any good mother would do but the single mom has to take all the responsibility on herself, and therefore has to be more careful.
@sonusd (1547)
• India
28 Dec 09
I have a friend who is single mom .
initially she was feeling proud because she is able to take care of her child and she was too careful and serious to take care of her child but after some day i saw that she is selling her body because she wants more money to give a good life to her child and after some day she searched for one man who can satisfy her and also will take care of her children so I do not want to comment about any single mom.
Some time it is difficult for a single mom
@shellback (864)
• Philippines
30 Dec 09
That's a sad story being a single mom, actually more single mom are craving for money just to survive everyday living, sad to say that they're lucky to have two meals a day, they forced to trade their body for a meal.
@kaylachan (69712)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
28 Dec 09
In general I would have to say that probably that could be considered true. After all a single mom has no one but herself to fall back on and is responsible for one or more lives under her care. If she wants to provide for those lives and bring them up to be well-respected and well-rounded adults then she has to be stronger, faster, and use her head. She can't let her fears filter to her children so she has to be tactful in dealing with the every day struggles she has to face to raise her children well and take care of them and herself.
A simple single woman doesn't have to worry about anyone but herself and don't always think as they should.
@shellback (864)
• Philippines
30 Dec 09
Yes its true, they're more tactful in everything because she knows that committing another mistake is another problem,they described me those things and they can prove even in hard times and Im happy for them, thanks...
@sublime03 (2339)
• Philippines
28 Dec 09
I have to say it really depends on the person. I still know a lot of single moms that are so carefree that they do not think of any consequences to what they are doing. But of course there are a lot of single moms that I know as well that they became a better person when they gave birth to their kids. It really depends on the person's status as well if they have funds or not. But kudos to all the single moms out there that are very independent.
