Difficult Decisions

Ouch - 3 years is a long time to resolve a problem. I'm glad you two were finally able to move through it. Pardon me for asking, but is your bf so fragile in his love for you (or perhaps his confidence in himself?) that he would make your past his present for nearly 3 years? It's much better to have a boyfriend that is also a great friend that you are able to confide in about anything - and not be made to feel guilty about it, nor have that past become a wall between you....and I understand that good men like this seem difficult to find. I don't think it's because you opened your mouth, but because of his personality that you two have had nearly 3 years of turmoil. I hope he'll see that his hardness of heart closes the openness you had hoped for and you'll (most likely) never want to confide in him again.....and that he's lost a portion of you. I wish you great luck in your future. :)

No one else has responded - perhaps we are the only ones that have faced difficult decisions. I haven't stated one of mine yet, I know....I was hoping to be asked, and to begin a true discussion of substance.