my absence and my feel....now I am back

@krajibg (11922)
Guwahati, India
December 28, 2009 8:04am CST
Well I admit I was away mylot for about a month. Some problems took me off and that is a different story. But I feel how much I missed my friend at mylot and the spicy discussions. Now I am back and would be as regular as I would be before. One realization that I feel vital is that Once you are heart and soul inside this site it is difficult to erase out everything forget about money thing. I am also happy that during my non existence over here so many of my friends PM me and wanted to know what actually happened to me. I feel this is the bond of life and friendship. What is your feeling?
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• Philippines
29 Dec 09
My feeling is almost similar. I received PM whenever I am away at Mylot, and some even check on my activity if I was here in Mylot because they did not see me for quite sometime. I answered their PM that I am just active on responding not on doing my own discussion. I haven't seen you for a while too, now that you're back I wish you do a lot of discussion for us. I will be waiting to participate again.
• Philippines
5 Jan 10
Happy New Year!
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
4 Jan 10
Hi grecy, It really feels good that our friends over here are really caring and if we are of the line there are PM or mails that querie our whereabouts. Thank you for the espons and wish you a great time in the days to come.
@celticeagle (168421)
• Boise, Idaho
29 Dec 09
I do feel the same about Mylot. I think there is a bond here with afew of the members. I really don't know you that well but hope that perhaps that will change over the next year. Happy New Year and heres hoping that your next year on Mylot will even more memorable than the last!
@celticeagle (168421)
• Boise, Idaho
5 Jan 10
I remember your picture. You should know though that after what I have been through in life my memory is pretty shot. I have been in two care accidents where I was hit on the head. With that and my depression my memory is not good. I recall you though.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
4 Jan 10
Hi celti, It is really astonishing to know that you do not know me. Have not we exchanged so many views on different posts? Have not we known who is from which place? Well it is ok. Mylot binds all of us with a single string and thus we are happy that we belong to the same platform. Wish you a great year ahead.
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@paula27661 (15811)
• Australia
29 Dec 09
Hi rajib! Glad to have you back! I was wandering when you would be back; I presumed you had other things to attend to. I have been here the whole time although I have not been starting as many discussions as I used to because time has been scarce for me too. It is school holidays at the moment and my daughter won’t be going to school again until the beginning of February so I have over a month of entertaining her without spending too much money which means MyLot has been taking second place. The important thing we are still here. I look forward to your posts my friend.
@ronnyb (6113)
• Jamaica
29 Dec 09
Welcome back and I know that sometimes there are circumstances outside of mylot that will impact on our presence here in mylot because after all we are humans and we have our lives outside of mylot.I was absence for severak months too and believe when I came back I realised how much I missed my friends and how much I was missed by them and I have made s decision to never be away from mylot for too long
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
8 Jan 10
Hi there, Thank you very much. Wish to se you in the next discussion.
• United States
2 Jan 10
glad to see you are still here or back,Both I have been working in fort mcmurry canda. was not enought time between work and sleep to keep trck of my lot, plus the net was not the best. The only time i have time for my lot is when i get am unemployed. such is life. It was very cold up there.hope every thing is going better for you. have to get back to the job hunt just wanted to drop line or two. best wishs to you. i will stop back later. Britt
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
3 Jan 10
Hi Britt, I am really glad to see you after so many months. I know you had hard days with cold. Hope now things have restored. Do write sometime. It feels nice that friends have not forgotten. Happy new year.
@zhouxi (1752)
• China
29 Dec 09
Hi, there.nice to see you again.there must be something more important than posting here during this phase to you.i can understand you .i'm not active recently.there are many things boring to me too.No matter what happened.keep yourself happy.happy new year to you!
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
8 Jan 10
Hi there, Not so serious that took me off you. It was usual thing. I feel happy that my friends have still the concern for me. Thank you very much and wish you a great new year times.
@mysdianait (66009)
• Italy
29 Dec 09
It's good to see you back Rajib! I may not be present on all of your discussiona because for me that is impossible but I was aware of your absence as you well know. It was a long time this time and I was concerned, especially after the last things you were concerned about before you vanished. I hope that now that is all in the past and you are ready and raring to go with your discussions that make everyone think! Many think that we are only names on a page but over the months and the years we become more attached and I agree that bonds are created and when we cannot be here for some reason or another, something calls us back even if only with our thoughts. Happy new year to you Rajib abd welcome back!
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
4 Jan 10
Hi Diana, I am sure that even if none keeps stock of my presence you are there to record that I am not there and that is yur great management capability. People feel obliged when they feel that they are important in the show. It is ok as you are busy you might not be able to respond all my discussions. But please do not forget that there used to be a fellow called Rajib from India.
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
29 Dec 09
Hi, krajibg. Yes, that is wonderful when your friends can be very concerned about your whereabouts. It shows that they do care for you and think about you when you are away. Even some people still care and they just have not sent you an email yet. I am glad that you are back at myLot. Sometimes, we will have to go away for a while just so that we can get back on track to where we have been. Welcome back, krajibg! I hope that you had a wonderful Christmas!
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
4 Jan 10
Hi cream, Yes I am happy that friends like you do really care. This is not important to send a PM or an email but to feel that one particular fellow is not in the scene is enough. Thank you very much and wish you all the good luck in the new year.
@bing28 (3795)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
Hello Rajib, we share the same feelings, I was away too for more than a month due to an internet problem, really life was so different less the pressure of doing mylot everyday. It's an unwanted vacation, missing friends and feeling much uneasy not doing the usual routine of participating in discussions and sharing ideas and views. Happy New Year, friend...
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
4 Jan 10
Life is like a voyage that you do not know whre you would reach if the situatio goes against your mission. Similarly when we are off the show feel that some one is missed but that culd not be the real facet. I was not there for a long time but my heart was ever there with my friends and finaly I am back. Thank you very much for the concern you have shown.
@JenInTN (27514)
• United States
29 Dec 09
I was wondering where you had been. I'm glad to see you back. I love my friends here.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
4 Jan 10
Hi jen, Your conjecture was correct. I had been away mylot for more than a month and now I am there amidst you.
@shibham (16977)
• India
28 Dec 09
Hi krajibg, welcome 2 mylot after a long interval. U r right that once being involved to friend circle, it is hard to be off from it. I think its a painful moment of cyber world. I think u have lost a lot from your absence. Good night.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
30 Dec 09
hi shivam, Thanks a lot for your concern. we would talk when we meet.
• United States
28 Dec 09
Hi there Raj How are you? I love it here on mt lot it is so nice to have someone to talk to and relate too as well. I am not sure we have met but hello anyway. I love starting and receiving responses on this site it is great!
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
30 Dec 09
Hi there jaher, Thanks a lot for your concern though we are not formally friends as yet. Yes all admit that mylot is a home where people remain connected all the while.
• United States
28 Dec 09
I agree mylots can be a huge social part to ones life. Its great to know theres so many nice people on here. I would miss it too if i had to stop being here because of real life situations. The money isnt everything to this site if you take it to the next level. I have enjoyed every day ive been here.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
4 Jan 10
Hi thee, You are right that there are really good people over here. And this is the factor thar that holds all together with a single string. We exchange ideas, have confrontation, have debate but we enjoy at the end of the day and this is called mylot. Thanks a lot for responding.
• Hong Kong
29 Dec 09
Hi krajibg, Welcome back! Have a good time here! I agree. One of my myLot friends disappeared for over 10 days. I wrote him messages and hoping him well. I pray for him every day. When I received his feedback few days ago, I felt so good. That is the friendship of love. Wishing you a Happy 2010. Have a nice day! agonyaunt69 (2:37pm 29 Dec 2009, Hong Kong time)
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
4 Jan 10
Hi there, Friends are those who care and share. Now though we are not so much close as myloters still we share some spirit of mylots and this is the real bond. Thank you very much for the response.
@tutul0045 (2630)
• India
28 Dec 09
Hey there, Well welcome back and hopefully yr come back will be as successful as of return of Sourav ganguly in the national side . Actually this is the second discussion where i find a mylot member is making a come back. Seems like everyone is having a party time in decmeber end and iam the only one who is working, and working over time Anyways hopefully we will get to c u in the full flow and also lots of interesting discussions and do lets us know what u doing this new year eve? Cheers, Tutul
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
30 Dec 09
Hi tutul, Thanks a lot for your concern. This goes without saying that mylot is a home where people leave for some time for one or the other reason but do come back. Might be mine also is the same case. However I was not thinking of quiting mylot and my friends over here. I never make any new proposal for the coming years for each day is same for me. wish you happy new year.
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
28 Dec 09
Hi rajib! I was also wondering where did you disappear? Hope everything was in order and you have sorted out your problems. We are happy to see you back. Your spicy comments/responses were also missed, as you missed your friends' discussions. You are so right, once you are tied to mylot, you cannot leave it, if you are it is true and sincere follower. I have been here on mylot for nearly 3 years and except few brief breaks, I remained active and enjoy the site. Friends here are great and you get to learn a lot from their discussions and their responses. There is no way, that I feel like skipping the site, when I am on-line. Wish you a very happy New year!
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
28 Dec 09
Hi deepak, I knew most of my friends would be wondering as to what happened to me. I feel proud of my friends. Now my problems are almost over and can resume at mylot as before. It is really a great pleasure to see old friend after a long pause.
@zandi458 (28102)
• Malaysia
28 Dec 09
Hi raj, it looks like you have been away for such a long time. I was wondering too what happened to you but reading from your last few discussions it seems that you are in problem. I wouldn't like to interfere in private affairs but only pray that you are in good stead. I am glad you make a come back and hope everything is fine with you now. Happy new year to you and family.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
28 Dec 09
Hi my friend Zands, I know it must really have put you people who are close to me to be in wonder as to why I am missing. There was no such great problem but something took me of and now at your end. missed all my friends. You and most others as well. I must thank you for your concern and happy nw years to you too.
• India
16 Jan 10
Hello my friend krajibg Ji, Well, I reciprocate your eelings and feel exactly similarways. But I too have been irregular for the last8-9 months duetomulti-folds problems, mainlydue to my transit from on eplace to another. But I will try and maintainmy presence and remain near your heart and soul. Wishing you' VERY HAPPY NEW YEAR-2010' May God bless You and have a great time.
@meapas (2436)
• India
28 Dec 09
Yes you are right. This is the bond of life and friendship which is thicker than blood. We are very lucky to be counted and wanted. Hope to see you in full glory.
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
28 Dec 09
Hi meapas, You said it rightly that the bond of friendship and life is thicker than blood. And fortunately we are there here with this motto.
@vandana7 (100619)
• India
28 Dec 09
Hi rajib! welcome back! For a moment I thought you felt bad about something that we'd been discussing. The last discussion we had, I think Maggiepie had come and we were talking about young and old politicians. LOL. Well, really glad to see you back. :) And thanks for saying you missed us. That feels good. :)
@krajibg (11922)
• Guwahati, India
28 Dec 09
Hi vandana, This is a privilege to have a friend like you who reckon her friends presence and absence. No there was was nothing bad about it. I was occupied with some problems and therefore could not be regular. Now as it is over I would be with you all as long as possible.