which one to choose from two girlfriends ?
By shivamkapila
@shivamkapila (764)
India
December 28, 2009 8:40am CST
Well my life is taking a turning point now...recently i have no girlfriend with me but the last girlfriend is now want to come back to me but now i have a good friend of mine who is also love me but she is not tell me yet...even i am also interested in her but i want to be only good friend of mine only....
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6 responses
@mods196621 (3652)
• Philippines
28 Dec 09
What your heart tells then follow. If you still love your ex-girlfriend, then accept her when she want to come back to you. For sure she loves you so much. Then if you have good friend with you at present and you are interested in her also, ask first yourself. Do you love this girl or you really want her just to be a friend. Then if you'll know what your feeling is, decide. You're the only one who answer your question. Only your feelings can tell. Well have a nice day!
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@xannebull (1793)
• Philippines
28 Dec 09
just follow what your heart dictates you , remember that pity is different from love, so if you just pity the girl don't chose her, but if you love the girl, then she's the right one for you so that you will have no regrets later.
@EARLZHAN (934)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
Well what you have to do is to consider all the consequences that might take place if you choose anyone of them. Try to think all the possible things that might happen if you choose your ex girlfriend and do the same with your new one. Then balance the advantages and disadvantages. Listen to your heart and mind and try to figure out whom you really love. Your problem is just similar to my problem before. But in my case I chose my new Girl Friend it's because I know that I'll be happy with her and she will be happy with me too. If my ex left me before she can also do that again if I choose her. Ohh.. By the way don't try to have a serious relationship between the two of them at the same time or else you'll end up with two ex's.
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
In my opinion, I think the reason for choosing any of them is not that reasonable. you see, your new friend has just been starting and very hard to predict things that fast unless you are sure that she is willing to be with you in a new love relationship.
Being interested in a person can arise to many level in love. Choosing a new girl for you life must be because of truthful love and a product of real love. It must cover all the sections in your life not just a one section which is interesting for you.
You have many time to clearly view who among them to choose. It is your hear and mind only can choose who among them.
STay with the person you will be happy and contented. This will give you piece of mind and strength in every trials in life.
@marywang1984 (85)
• China
28 Dec 09
According to your description,I think it's better not choose from them,I feel that now you don't love the last girlfriend or you will not hesitate,but you don't want the new girl to be your girlfriend so I think you don't love them.So don't make a choice,both of them are not the one that you love.
@mjcookie (2271)
• Philippines
28 Dec 09
I think you don't have to choose any from them. You didn't mention whether you still love your ex-girlfriend or not. She wants to come back to you, but do you want her to come to you again? Do you still love her? I doubt so, because you said that you like this good friend of yours. And you said that you only want to be a good friend to this girl. Forget your ex (be cool with her, though), and develop a good friendship with the new one. This may not seem easy to do as it sounds, but at least give it a try.