Can you tell us your most unforgetable exprience in helping others?
@wildlittlefan (4680)
Hong Kong
December 28, 2009 11:54am CST
There are many times in our life that you need helpm from others and sometimes you will help others as well.Helping others is a good thing to do becuase by it is an act of giving.It will make us happy if we can really help others and others will feel more happy if their need are being fulfilled.But someimes,the helping process is just not fun at all.For example,your friend may ask you for help in his moving.During the process,since you have to carry heavy stuffs that will make you feel regret in a few minutes.Because it will use you lots of energy and strength,After that you will feel extremely tire or you may sometimes hurt yourself without even knowing it.Well,what was your most unforgetable experience and feeling in helping others?Share with us.
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@allknowing (136407)
• India
29 Dec 09
Helping others is an opportunity that gives us joy and so I do not consider that I have done something great. I sponsored a girl child, brought her home, gave her education, got her married and now she is independent but sadly I am being haunted by her inlaws for financial help rather ruthlessly!! They are trying to take away the joy I had in this activity.
@wildlittlefan (4680)
• Hong Kong
30 Dec 09
Again,your experience remind us that helping experience may not always get a happy ending but for sure what you did is already a great thing in this world.The world is full of happiness and dispair.It happen everyday.Because of human sin,people always hurting each others and of course ,hurting God's feeling as well.I hope that your girl can treasure your love more and I hope that the love of God will always comfort you when you are unhappy in life.I will recommend my Lord and my friend "Jesus" to you .Accept Jesus as your saviour and enjoy the love of God through Jesus.He will always love you and will never fail you.God bless you and a happy new year.
@becdmd (704)
• Philippines
29 Dec 09
True, helping other people can give us joy and know that God is pleased with us. My most unforgettable experience of helping other people was when I volunteered at the medical mission near our place, who got really affected by the "Ondoy typhoon here in the Phils." Many people in that area were affected by floods that they could no longer live in their homes so at the evacuation center, we donated some goods, I helped out in dispensing the medicines. It's a great feeling to help even though that time we also got affected by the typhoon, I forgot myself and still be a blessing to the needy and it's worth all the effort, for helping others is the best!
@wildlittlefan (4680)
• Hong Kong
30 Dec 09
Hey,great code from the psalm in your profile.Yes,I herad about the typhoon ondoy from the TV news before.It was really something.But it is good to know you were trying to help others while you were one of those who has been affected by this big wind.I hope you will enjoy your life in the future and experience more on God's protection and blessing as well.Anyway,helping is always a happy virtue and we all need to encourage one another to do so.As you may know that whatever ew do ,we do it for the glory of God.God bless you and happy New year.
@youless (112481)
• Guangzhou, China
29 Dec 09
When I was a student, one day I helped an old granny to carry her things to the bus. After that, this old granny said to me:"Thanks, little boy!" Oh, I had to say that I was a girl, but I just had short hair. It was a little upset to me. But I didn't correct her anyway. Perhaps she didn't have a good eyesight, so she thought I was a boy?:) Didn't she realize how difficult it was for me to carry her things to the bus? A boy should do it easily.
I love China
@wildlittlefan (4680)
• Hong Kong
30 Dec 09
Well,nobody can deny that you had done something good to this granny anyway.And perhaps you are right,maybe the granny had poor eyesight,that's all^_^But I think maybe you are having a long hair by now and never mind how you looked when you were young .It was past anyway and it was a fun experience actually.Ha Ha..Well,although you needed to use some more strength to help others but you did a good job to the granny and I hope you can keep up your good helping attitude in 2010.Happy New Year.
@airakumar (1553)
• India
29 Dec 09
The most unforgettable experience stays fresh in my memory all the time. Longtime ago, I was standing at bus stop when I was in my school days. A girl came to me and asked few bucks so that she can reach home. She forget to carry bucks and I had only few, just for me. I didn't think more I gave it to her as her home was very far and I took a walk. I reached home. Mom asked me why I am late. I told her that I walked a while. I am tired and went to my room.After two days, I saw a girl coming to me and she said. Thanks! I didn't recognised her then she said that she is the same girl I helped. She came to return money. I said No it it. It was a help and help cannot be measured. She gave m a sweet smile and hugged me. It was a nice day. I will never forget her sweet smile.
@wildlittlefan (4680)
• Hong Kong
30 Dec 09
Oh yes,this is for sure a great memory of life.A "help",a "money return" and "a sweet smile" It is always a joy to help other.Because we have ,then we can give.Giving and helping will always be a happy experience for all the normal person in this world.If we will always think of helping other ,rather than hurting other:this world will be different.Thank God there are so many organization in this world such as the salvation Army or the Red Cross that are helping people everyday.We sure need more organization like that in this world and then more needy people may receive help.Happy New year.
@bharadwaz (112)
• India
29 Dec 09
hi
my most forgettable experience in helping others is that am having two types of unforgettable experiences one is that a man met with an accident and we some of the friends admitted in hospital and i gave my blood after that their relatives came and appreciating and thanking me it makes me happy and one more my friend asked me money to buy some books and i gave 2000 rupees to him but he buys a gift to her girlfriend . . . .
@c4rl170x (5)
• Venezuela
29 Dec 09
Well my most unforgettable experience its when i was in 8th grade, the story goes like this:
I was presenting an exam and a schoolmate (girl) was behind me (my crush in that time), I studied for that test like if its the final exam which it wasn't but was important, well she didn't studied at all and she was in trouble... sooooo i tried to give answers to her... but the class room was to silent... so i said to her "GIVE ME THE EXAM" and i did to her the exam... and i did mine... the next week the teacher gives the results and i got 14/20 and she got 16/20! i did knew what to do.. to get mad or to laugh for frustration... but then she comes to me and gives me a kiss (in the cheek) and then i kissed her in the mouth and then she went to my home and start kissing again.. and thats all xD... i was to young for what you were thinking DIRTY MINDED PEOPLE! XD...
thats it
@wildlittlefan (4680)
• Hong Kong
30 Dec 09
I think that's chating more than helping but anyway you were in your 8TH grade anyway.I hope you will truely help someone with a proper method right now and never mind about the kiss anymore.
@ishme4nowz (679)
• United States
28 Dec 09
I think my most unforgettable experiences helping each other would be from when I was younger. When I was younger, I was really shy so it was a huge deal for me to get the courage to take action and help someone. The first memory that came to me when I read this discussion was when I was maybe 9 years old or about that age. I went out to eat with my family at a McDonalds. It was one of the McDonalds that had a playground. I remember there were a lot of kids playing around and I was inside the playplace. I was about to go down the slide when I saw a mom calling for her son to come down. I went down the slide and I saw her.
I don't remember exactly if she asked me or if I asked her how I could help, but I ended up going back into the playplace to find her son standing next to the slide. I wasn't exactly sure that was her son though, but I guessed it was because he was the closest one to the slide. Anyway, I took her son's hand and we went down the slide together to meet his mom at the bottom. As soon as we got down, she started thanking me and I had a huge smile on my face. I was just really happy that I got to help someone. I even thought about how I gained more courage to take action (even though it wasn't that big of an action, it was pretty big for me) and help someone on the car ride home.
Another time, I was a couple years older. I was at church and the service ended a while ago and we were finishing our lunches. I saw an elderly lady with a container or something with food in it and a napkin over it because she didn't have a cover for it. I saw that she was looking for a rubber band. Everyone else was busy with their own thing so I didn't see anyone help her get a rubber band for her food. I didn't have a rubber band on me, but I still wanted to help her, so I searched all around the church campus to look for a rubber band on the ground. I finally found one and I went back into the room where we were all in and I gave her the rubber band. She gave me an appreciative look. That was one of my more unforgettable moments of helping others when I was older =D
@wildlittlefan (4680)
• Hong Kong
30 Dec 09
Thank you for your response and your helping experinces will be a memory for life to others and yourself as well.We do need some happy memeory in our life and helping experience is something good to remember.At least we do have some positive contribution to this world.I hope that everyone will help pthers like you did ,then the world will be a happier place.God care about us and He wants us to care for each others.I think we all have to learn from our helping experiences.Happy New Year and I hope you can help more people in 2010 and receive more joy from helping others.
@AaronYLeung (182)
• United States
29 Dec 09
I definitely had a lot of unforgettable experiences in helping others but there are 2 of them in which I was thinking about when I was reading this discussion. It was all in 2009 too! =] haha
My first unforgettable experience was when my friends and I ate out at In N Out. After we finished we saw a car that has been there for a while and it was stuffed with things so we could barely see anything in the car, except an old couple that "looked" like they were sleeping or hurt. We wanted to help them so we bought them food and we knocked in their car window. The woman woke up and opened the window. It turns out that they were just resting and that they were OK. But we gave them food. It looked as if they were having a tough time so we asked if she can get out of the car and talk with us. She started talking about her son and his accident and going to the hospital. Then she talked about how her and her husband were always traveling and always goes to that In N Out to take a rest. The for a long long time she started talking about religion based things. At the end I felt pretty good we helped/talked with her. It was pretty refreshing. But at the same time it was sorta uncomfortable. But we definitely made them smile and being able to help them was whats important.
My second experience was with my friend's cousin. I wont say her name for privacy purposes but she was going through adepression-like stage. Like I mean serious depression where a person cries and analyzes things wayyyy to much and is sad about everything. She felt that nobody could relate to her and nobody could help her. I tried to help talk to her a lot. I was helping her understand that there ARE a lot of people who care for her and understand her. Her cousin and I tried to talk to her a lot, trying to offer her help, comfort, guidance, and advice. At first she takes it but after a short while she gives the advice back to us and doesn't accept it. Shes always questioning if she can really be helped. Sometimes she seems like she really doesn't appreciate our help because she is always second-guessing us and questioning us. I am not sure of her current situation as of right now but that situation was definitely unforgettable mainly because that situation was a situation in which triggered my downfall moments. But fortunately I was able to get back up and that is what matters, getting back up and learning how to deal with it. =]
@wildlittlefan (4680)
• Hong Kong
30 Dec 09
Thank you for your sharing and the insight we got from you would be "an immediate response in certain situatiion is very imprtnat in helping others."On the other hand ,not that we are a giver but in most case ,we are a learer as well.We can grow from helping others and by listening to the story of those whom we offer our help with.,we can get to know something about life that we may never experience before.And from the experience on helping your relative show us that helping experience may sometimes frustrated and not always will get a happy ending.But as ling as we have try to help others and make this world a better place to live,then never mind about once awhile we will face some difficult cases.But still there will always be some happy experience as well.Happy New Year.And let 2010 be another helping year of mankind.