What are you thinking?
By skipper9
@skipper9 (51)
December 28, 2009 7:34pm CST
When a girl says to you what are you thinking? What do you say? I never tell the truth. If she knew what I was thinking she would probable phone the police lol.
3 responses
@robertx (150)
• Romania
29 Dec 09
There is a different tone,
when the question becomes
"what do you think about this or that"
(insert object, fact, person or whatever here).
That is something she has some interest in.
Its usually something she likes.
But it can be something that bugs her as well.
If its an object she may consider purchasing it
for herself or for a friend, or maybe
she just hints you to get it for her.
Either way she thinks about it, so you don't have to.
Just tell her if you like it or not,
or if you think it would look good on her.
@robertx (150)
• Romania
29 Dec 09
I'm with you on this one. Never tell them what you are thinking.
I know it sounds silly but they don't really expect you to think anyway.
And its sure as hell they are not expecting to be dating Einstein either :).
A question such "what do you think?" or "what are you thinking about?"
its usually some warning that she feels
you either don't pay enough attention to her,
or that you don't listen to what she has to say.
You'll get away from this in many ways, once you realise it.
And no, she isn't looking for rocket science.
@AaronYLeung (182)
• United States
29 Dec 09
Well I am not a girl so I will try my best to answer this. =] haha Why are you thinking those thoughts anyways if you think she would probably phone the police? Haha tsk tsk
For me, honesty is the best policy. If I was a girl I would not want the boy to just answer in a way that would impress me. Of course it would be good but its pathetic. It just means you are trying too hard. Dont try to say stuff JUST to impress the girl. For example:
Girl: What are you thinking about?
Boy: I am thinking about you sweet thang...
LOL Maybe that was pathetic but Im sure you get my point. I hope I got my point across.
If you are honest to her, it will lead to a special connection because she knows you trust her to tell her things and it brings this to a whole different level. Who knows, you might start up a big conversation where you and her are talking and you get into deep conversations. =]
Hope that helped! =D