My friend ignore me.
By indocorner
@indocorner (546)
Indonesia
5 responses
@dianmelydia (2269)
• Indonesia
29 Dec 09
I think there's must be a reason why was such situation occurs. Perhaps you can asking your friend or maybe you may do self reflection about what was your false recently to your friend. I think we all agree that something happened for a reason. So if your friend ignoring you, it must be something wrong on your side or on your friend's side. Sometimes some people ignoring us because they won't to hurt us because they perhaps have a bad news for us. But sometimes other people keep their hate inside their heart deeply so we won't know what actually is happened with them until the fact is opened. But since you have done some arguments with your friend before, i think it must be some misunderstanding between you and your friend. Usually such condition can be fixed on certain occasions. I think you also need third party to help you melting this situation. You may asking someone who known you and known about your friend closely to help you both. Remember that it's very easy to losing a friend, but it's very hard to making a good friendship. So you must appreciating your friend. Sometimes we might give in for a better result. Don't wasting more time for doing a good thing. Act now to safe your friendship. Good luck for you and have a nice day. Happy mylotting.
@dianmelydia (2269)
• Indonesia
29 Dec 09
Then good luck for you. Keep remember to give in if your friend really blaming you. Believe me, some day, when your friend realizing how value is a friend for his life, he will come to you and asking for forgiveness from you. Time will tell the truth. Have a nice day and happy mylotting.
@indocorner (546)
• Indonesia
29 Dec 09
thanx for all of u, friends. ur suggestions are very worth.
@ dian: ok, i'll contact my friend who stays at the same hostel with him to ask for help. thnx
@inlaviola (241)
• Indonesia
29 Dec 09
do'nt sad bro. ur friend just need a little time to think. and i think ur friend not angry and its be ok latter.
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@indocorner (546)
• Indonesia
29 Dec 09
I hope so. thnx friend.
u knw... he even changes his avatar with fully black blank.
@clocks123 (1225)
• United States
7 Jan 10
he is no friend, believe me. i wish people who say they are a friend would act like one. you have to find someone who REALLY wants to be a friend to you. i would move forward if i were you. the best to you
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@Godmother (476)
• Indonesia
29 Dec 09
If you already said sorry, then leave it for a while. Maybe he's the sort of person that needs to take time. But if after a while and he still doesn't reply, then maybe he's not your friend. meanwhile, take some time to remember again what you said. Maybe you really said something that hurt him. After all, bad experiences are given to us so we become better people.
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@indocorner (546)
• Indonesia
29 Dec 09
I don't leave yet. I'm still online n so is he. we r in YM ritenow. I'm still waiting for his reply but until now i don't get it.
@warvial (1146)
• Singapore
29 Dec 09
If you have already said sorry, then just act normal. I mean it could be he also felt awkward to act normal so fast after what happened the night before. Give him time to go back to the normal reaction state. But of course if his reaction stays the same for a very long time, say one week, then something is wrong somewhere.
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