In a Relationship, are you the submissive or dominating type?

I am submissive by choice. I don't like men who'd do my every bidding. No challenge there for me. I had suitors who'd do everything for me no matter how inconvenient it is just to please me. I ended up getting bored with them. Ideally, relationships should always be give and take. However, in reality, one party is always bound to be a little bit more dominating. I believe that if both parties are dominating, there would always be fights and misunderstanding; If both parties are submissive, the relationship would be too plain, and might lose its course along the way.

Hi Maria, I am submissive by nature and I like when man takes control in bed and advices me in certain aspects of my life. In my past relationship I reluctantly had to be dominant because I felt my ex was not meeting up to my expectations and it just annoyed me. He was a good man though. I have no complaint against him. In my current relationship everything is equally distributed since both of us are submissive. And we have understood that in a healthy relationship the two people should not try dominating each other, but be best friends. So in everything we do we make sure that things are kept equal. While sometimes I advice him in some matters, he does the same for me. Even when we eat together things are kept equal. For instance, if I am making the meal he would get drinks and dessert for us. In bed we equally pleasure each other. So this relationship is very satisfying and happy for both of us.

hello maria! i think i am more of a submissive type! yeah, i always respect my man and i don't want to be the dominating one in the relationship...i am submissive but not to the extent of being a martyr or looking like a fool... i know when to talk & when not to talk...i am just glad that my man is also considerate & kind to me, he hears my opinions and respect it as well... when there's some issues that we need to fixed in our relationship, i still have the voice, we share opinions and come out with a decision...but whatever decision he made, as long as its fair, i will go with him... but there are times, to some issues, i just tell my opinion but the final ay will be his...and i will respect & accept it... good day!