children
By hooch27
@hooch27 (14)
December 29, 2009 3:13pm CST
where do i start,i have 4 children 2 frm a previous and 2 with my current partner,my partner has one frm a previous who i treat the same as the others when we have her which is everyothe wkend anyway iam finding my patner doesnt seem to understand why i get so angry at him when he doesnt seem to treat them all in the same why ex:if there all playing up my older 2 get the blame which i feel is wrong if there all doing it .this is really starting to get to my oldest as its been going on nearly 3 years ive bitten my tonuge for so long as i know its hard for my partner to not see her often and i do love her to i have tryed most things but it ends in a row. any replys would be grateful
2 responses
@fourjems08 (550)
• Philippines
14 Jan 10
You're kinda in a tough situation there. You're torn between your children and your partner. Maybe you just need an open communication with your partner and you also need to assure your older child you love her and try to show it many times to her rather than just merely telling her you love her.
@jugsjugs (12967)
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29 Dec 09
I used to have a simular problem,where as i have 2 girls from my first marriage and 4 boys from this marriage.My husband has always got on well with one of my daughters,but as for the other one he never got on with her and if he was going to blame someone for something that was going to be the daughter he did not get on with.In the end the strain of all the arguments got too much that she went to live with my mum.The thing is that now we still argue but he can never blame her,i always would be there for all the children and i too was always having arguments and even now that one of them is nearly 18 all i want was for all my children to live together happy like it used to be.Stand up to your partner or this will carry on for years,where there are children from previous relationships there will always be an argument.Good luck.
