If u can choose, you want to be a man or a woman?

@asanlee (408)
Indonesia
December 29, 2009 8:41pm CST
Sometimes i think that life is hard for man. But my wife disagree, she said woman has many restriction...you cant do this cant do that. Life is easier for man....more freedom???? what do u think?
8 responses
• Portugal
11 Jul 10
i agree with her. life for men is more easy. they dont take things so serious like we girls do, they are more relaxed in pretty much everything. we girls are always worried and thinking too much. is like for men life is more simple than for us. they do romantic and simple things and for us we always think in all details. also we are more dreamy than them^^
• Portugal
11 Jul 10
but im happy to be a girl^^
@bhav27 (442)
• India
1 Jan 10
i think this is really a very difficult question for me , i seriously don't know which option i will choose because for me both are eaqually good and fantastic , noth man and woman are capable of doing everything and can do whatever they want to and have the power to fight with the problems and making life beautifull , i will choose the third option which is unavailable that is any of them or will left it on god and let him decide what should i be , man or women? or may be something else , like cat , dog ,goat depending upon my sins.
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 10
lol....hallo friend...r u really cant choose, even u r given a chance? No matter what u r, as long as u r happy ...that's okay....right?
• China
30 Dec 09
well if that's available ofcourse i will choose to be one man since man do not have to suffer the period every month at least.my wife alwasy suffered alot during that period and she said she do not like that at all.though man have to earn more money to support the family but i still like to be one man.
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 09
I agree with you....happy to be a man.YEssss........
@maezee (41988)
• United States
30 Dec 09
I think women and men have probably the same amount of freedom. I'd probably much rather be a chick; it's what I'm used to after all. I'm kind of feminine, though, so it makes sense (although I can also be a tomboy at times..) Hmm. I do agree that sometimes, with all the sexism in the world, it's challenging to be a woman..But at the same time, I'm up for a challenge. So I think I'll stay a girl.
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 09
bravo...for your choice...nowdays men and women are equal in this society....all things have pros and cons...as long as you are happy, why not?
@chriszh22 (432)
• China
30 Dec 09
I think maybe man wanna be a woman if have the chance and woman wanna be a man hehe. For me, I'm a female and I wanna to be a male if I can choose maybe because man is more powerful than woman in many respects, like your wife said, and enjoy more freedom and do what they wanna to do lol.
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 09
ha ha ha I think so....if i can choose,i just want to be a woman for "one day", just want to know what is the feeling....but I still want to be a MAN ...ho ho ho
@vycess (1588)
• Saudi Arabia
30 Dec 09
Lol... i agree with your wife. there are more boundaries for gals in doing some task or anything. i always see that men has more freedom but every individual is unique. i just hate the period/menstruation thing for females, i hate it bec. of dysmenorrhea.
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 09
wow....one more supporter for my wife. Seems like to be a woman is not easy. But I should say to be a man is not easy either, anyway...i still want to be a man....
• India
3 Jan 10
Man - Its always more freedom for us as per our society.. But at the same time I think we shouldn't be out of even our own control..!!
@ruchimom (280)
• Australia
30 Dec 09
Hi I agree with your wife.Life is hard for women and men can't even get close to what women have to go through.There are so amny liberties for men which they tend to take for granted. If I was given a choice ,I would be a Man.
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
30 Dec 09
ha ha ha...in that case...i feel so lucky that i am a MAN....although i always appreciate what women have done. Most of Children will be closer to their mom rather than daddy ....and i agree women deserve more love and care from husband n their children...that's one of the great thing to be a woman.