Why I always think "money is not enough"?

@asanlee (408)
Indonesia
December 31, 2009 11:45pm CST
I was starting work for others and get a small amount of salary. i couldnt spend much then. Now I am a businessman have my own company , makes me earn much more than before.but i wonder why until now i still feel that i'm always lack of money. My money is not enough. WHY???? Do u also feel the same.......???????????????????
17 responses
• Philippines
1 Jan 10
Hi Asanlee, When we were earning less, our needs were simple. As the income gets bigger, we yearn for more luxuries in life. If you have your own business, you feel that money is not enough because of the expected expenses that you alone, as owner, will shoulder. There are a lot to think about the company. There are a lot to improve and thoughts of expansion sometimes are entertained. Contentment may have a part to this feeling too.
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 10
hallo...i like your name Moneymakingtoday....Can you tell me the way to earn more money? Of course the legal way. I just feel cant breath...money are so hard to earn, although Money is not above all but if u dont have money its a big problem. Although I have money to spend, and I dont ask for luxuries life, but I just feel why money hard to come but easy to go......sigh.....
• Philippines
1 Jan 10
Lol... you may call me MMT, for short. Without much thinking and with haste, I registered with that name. I wanted to change it later but I have to close this account, so I decided to just let it be. Actually, I only have myLot and 2 others. I am more enjoying here and earning just a little at the other two sites. There are friends who refer some sites and wish I can find time for them. It is because I have a day work to attend to.
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 10
hi..MMT...it's okay with this name. It doesn't matter...just keep it, so I know it's you.....Nice to be friend with u....
@Craicha (801)
1 Jan 10
maybe you feel money is lack for you bcoz the money you earned this time is not enough to provide for the things you want and needed in your life....yah of course i feel it sometimes especially to my kids bcoz i might cannot give or provide of what they want and needs...
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 10
YEEESSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS.......That's what I'm thinking, want to give them more but cant afford it. What should I do?
@Craicha (801)
2 Jan 10
ok as simple as this...explain to them and make them understand the situation about expending things that is nah enough for the money..buy things that are needed not just you want it...be wise in handling and budgeting your money, buy things that are good quality but reasonable price...like yah its branded but choose the branded in sale....
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
2 Jan 10
actually sometimes we have to look at how we live andspend the moeny we are earning. everytime our money or earnings rise, our cost of living rises with it and so there goes the feeling "why is our money on hand not enough"...
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 10
So you do have this feeling? How you get out of it? or u r still troubled by this prolems?Or mayb u have find the way to earn money? Please tell me.....
• United States
4 Jan 10
I think because more is always better so we always want more of things no matter how much we already have. I feel the same way too. I'm not exactly poor as I can still afford my education and a place to live but I definitely would like more money.
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
5 Jan 10
hallo....more is not always better...just like more troubles, do you think is good? But YEss more money is GOOD...
@lyzabelle (1668)
• Philippines
5 Feb 10
If you had your own company then you should be satisfied by now. But if you still had difficulty and shortage with money then there must be something wrong with your lifestyle. You shouldn't change your lifestyle that easily because you are not yet super rich. You maybe buying material things that is very expensive or your company is not totally financially independent yet.
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
6 Feb 10
Hallo....I think mostly because of global crisis, and Thank you for your suggestion, I will instropect myself, maybe probaly there's some problems with my life style too. Happy mylotting!!!
@danitykane (3183)
• Philippines
1 Jan 10
hi asanlee, Sometimes I feel the same way and I happen to be unsatisfied with the things that I got which is not a good trait to have. Because of the many things we want in life, we often want to get all the best we can have. Still we are not happy. I think it is important to know what we need and what we want. I also observed that the more successful we are in monetary aspect the more spending we make and the downfall is losing all of it into waste. I think knowing what will make us happy is far important than anything we want in this life and most of it isn't about material thing.
• Philippines
1 Jan 10
i know you can find what you are wishing for, just believe that you can make it.
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 10
gimme five friend,we share same thoughts. I 'll make it balance between material n spiritual's need. But I still have to earn more money.....I just cant help thinking about it..... :C
@bobmnu (8157)
• United States
1 Jan 10
I think there is a law or rule that says that the more you make the more needs you have. I remember that I once said that I needed a cell phone for emergencies. I now have a plan that has over 1000 minutes a month and I don't know How I got by with out the cell phone. My likes changed to much needed.
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 10
hallo Bob....it's true that the increasement on your needs never equal to the money you earn. The more you earn , the more you spend......and you need more....tell me How I make it equal, BOB? :)
• India
1 Jan 10
No I don’t feel that way coz I know that there is no limit to the amount of money which will ever be sufficient for us. Some of this need is in our minds, some of it is reality. We are a working couple with one child but the money we are earning today hardly seems sufficient for all our needs. The practical reason is that over the past one year, things have become extremely expensive here in India. Essential commodities like veggies, rice, pulses, electricity bills, daily expense at the grocers…everything has increased abnormally and our savings have dwindled accordingly. So in this case, I could really do with a little more money. But apart from this, there are our dreams which have no end…good house, cars, vacations, clothes, dining out, spending on kids…idle fancies which only cause us more stress and steal away our present happiness…so I never want money for these things.
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 10
that's good that u dont have this thought to pressure yourself. But I still cant help to think about it over and over again....Life is hard.....
@JAYMAR777 (840)
• Philippines
1 Jan 10
because as our money grows, so are our desires, needs, lifestyles grows as well. That is why you always feel the need and lack. i guess the antidote for that one is to learn to be contented with what you have (you can be contented without being satisfied this is where i am). as well as learn to give and share. Because one of the reason that man feels this way, it's because of looking to what He does not have (of course there is no end); rather than looking to what he has. happy new year asanlee
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 10
No, I am not that greedy, But I cant help....I have to pay my debt....so I cant stop thinking about it...mayb i couldnt manage my monetary well.......
@vherzha (223)
• India
1 Jan 10
Dear Asanlee Happy New year.... I can't find anything wrong about your thinking about want to make money more... Because more than 90% of the people having the same thought only... But here only 10-25 percents of the People only get succeed and also their succeed may be differ based on the Money they earned.... All have that eager to earn money but only few can try it and succeed it... If you have only eager means then you can't but I have a hope that you can succeed... Its not an Ice... Why I told that like means, as per your statement, in past you worked as an Employee and now at present you are appointing few employees for your business... So If you can try to search with the same eager (but don't be crazy or greedy about it - its my request) means surely you will move one step further... Why can't you take a resolution (that you will move one step Ahead from present by money status) and will try to achieve it in the year end? All the very best for you my friend.... I hope you can win... But My humble request is don't be in the moneymaking mind forever and you must have to take relax and be a human and take care of your mind and also health and spend your few hours time regularly to your Family too... Because Family is also one of the best Treasures to your Successful life... According to me, I am not that much interested about it... I want to grow up my status as per my need but the same time if any opportunity will knocks my door means I must give respect and will try to welcome it and keep it with me...
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 10
Hallo...friend...I'm not a workaholic, I put my family above of all, spend most of my time with them. What made me dizzy is I cant provide everything they need....why I'm always lack of money? I hope i'll out of this situation. I'll try every legal way to earn more money.....Hope I'll be success one day....
• Philippines
2 Jan 10
No. I think it's not a question of satisfaction, it's a question o being contented of what you have. If we are contented we are happy , no matter how little we have. Because man by nature we are not satisfied. Everyday their are new things coming. Like for example if you have business of your own , ifyou earned lots of money , you want more profit or money for yourself and your family because you are not satisfied and if you have plenty of money , you have plenty of problems or vices also. So if you live a simple life, you're needs are simply, if you live a complex life, your problems are also complex. Thank you.....
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 10
yeahh..my prolems are complex...I couldnt go back, I just have to move ahead.....because life has to be going on.....actually what I really want is very simple, that is ...my family happy & healthy then i'll be happy. Thany you
@bhav27 (442)
• India
1 Jan 10
actually this is a normal and common feeling in those who have everything , this feeling arise because the person is having everything and he feels what to do now? so the feeling of making more and more money always arise and the person is busy in making money , making more and more money , if you really want to get rid from this feeling then i will suggest you to start devoting your time toward god for 15 minutes dialy , as days will pass you will yourself spend more time towards god and will found that you are more relaxed now.
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 10
Hallo friend...I have this feeling not because I have everything,but the other way round I just have too little thing. I work everyday but still get too little, not enough to cover all my expenses. Maybe It's true I earn more then before but still too little for me now, although I agree that my needs increased. Am i not diligent enough?
@chriszh22 (432)
• China
1 Jan 10
I should say the more you earn, the more you'll spend. People will limit their spending with limited income, but will not limit their desire if they have more money. You'll buy cheap things if no money, but will buy expensive ones when rich. Look at those superstars, they earn a lot but spend very quickly with expensive or luxary things.
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 10
hallo ...do you mean limit my desire to spend or limit my desire to earn more money? I hope when i have much money like superstars, i can limit my desire to spend on luxury things, then i'll become richer........
@px_yeap (269)
• Malaysia
1 Jan 10
the more your earn the more you desire....and more you desire more money will be needed...it is always not enough...same here!
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 10
yeaahh.....we feel the same.....
@coolcat123 (4387)
• India
1 Jan 10
there is no end of having MORE...it always goes on, but when a person is poor, then he says money is not enough, and when he becomes rich, his wantedness increases and so is the lifestyle, and to maintain such things again the money is lacking so we ask for more.
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 10
yeahhh...it's not cool talk about the money all the time, but money really matter to everyone....right? I cant help, I just feel dizzy thinking of making more money....if u have a coolway , just tell me......
@dependent (131)
• China
1 Jan 10
that is human‘s nature~man~ who would feel his money is enough to spent? 1F is the right view,u feel discontented and u want to make more money amd u feel money isnot enough and u feel discontend again~
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 10
yeah..i know it's human nature, do u feel the same? so how you get over it? do u feel pressurise, or u have a better way to earn more money ? In Mylotting I feel relieved that I know that many people just like me........share my thoughts....
@PastorP (1170)
• United States
1 Jan 10
Greetings asanlee, Some time back our church got a grant for me to teach to the public about money and nutrition. I called it the M & Ns. We had a textbook which I forget the title of about the money part. I remember it saying though that generally for humans the more money they make the more they want. This is part of our sinful nature that responds to what the Holy Bible refers to as the deceitfulness of riches. The best cure for that is to make Christ first in one's life.
@asanlee (408)
• Indonesia
1 Jan 10
Hallo sir, nice to meet u.... I'm a Buddish , our religion also teaches us to look for peace in mind rather than look for materialistic. The more important is "Rich in your spiritual side rather than material side". I understand but I just cant help when I'm preasurised by this hard life....especially in this Global's crisis moment.......thank you, hope u understand my poor english...God bless You.