Ah.. I am in love again..
By lovedude
@lovedude (4447)
India
January 1, 2010 3:52am CST
I have seen many guys/girls who often fall in love.. what I mean to say is.. once they come closer to someone they think they are in love and after few days/months they realise it's not love it's just attraction.. again after previous break up he/she fall in love again with same feelings..
Is this just natural? or may be it's because he/she need love and not able to find right person..? Have you ever seen anyone in your relative or friends?
2 responses
@pillow08 (97)
• Philippines
1 Jan 10
People often mistakes infatuation with love. Love is when you take out all the good stuffs and you still want to stick together. I know someone like that. He would become close to someone and feel that he is in love with the girl, every time this happens, he would leave his girlfriend for the new girl; However, a few weeks later, he come back to his old girlfriend and leave the new girl. This happened several times. Just my thought on it:
- the person might be insecure, thus, whenever someone new shows the slightest interest, they would grab at the opportunity, feeding their ego.
- they are looking for a trait they couldn't find on their partner, so they easily fall in and out of love.
- human nature, they can't get enough (of love)? Never content.
- immaturity. Can't discern love from attraction. Responsibility comes with love, some people have problems with commitment, so when the relationship becomes too serious they "fall out of love".
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