You'll know when the right person comes along......
By FallenGurl
@FallenGurl (195)
Canada
January 1, 2010 10:24am CST
No doubt we have all heard this saying before, but for how many of you have it been true??
For me, i was dating, well losers! Unemployed, no future, treated me bad, addicted to drugs, and so on. My mother is really protective of me and who i date, she don't want me to get hurt, completely understandable. But i really feel like my current boyfriend is who i wanna be with for good!! (i don't like using the term 'Forever'). His name is Trevor, and he is simply amazing, he knows how to make me laugh everyday, he treats me like a queen, for once in a relationship, i'm not the one paying for everything. He shows me he cares about me, he has the most amazing hugs! Things that use to bother me about my ex's (such as smoking, drinking, games, pot, etc) don't irk me at all with Trevor, and all i can think of why it don't is cause i really wanna be with him. It amazes me how happy i am with him, and i never felt this way with any of my ex's!
So have you had this feeling with the person your with? Please share...
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9 responses
@JAYMAR777 (840)
• Philippines
1 Jan 10
I'm in a relationship too but all I can say...Your boyfriend is human. Trevor has his darkside (believe me). Get to know Him, he may have those wonderful qualities but it is still best and wise to know the person better. I'm not saying he isn't the one but, he sure has his flaws. I guess the answer for your title (if it was a question). You'll know, because you are able to live with everything hes got happily, not in regrets or striving to live.
Happy new year hope you are fallen no more.
@FallenGurl (195)
• Canada
1 Jan 10
oh believe me, i know some of his flaws, and some bad habits he has, and things he has done in the past, and things he wants to do in the future, and i can honestly say i support him 100%, and things dont bother me, like they use to, not sayin we still dont have disagreements, or arguments, cause we are normal, but he's a pleasure to be.
@JAYMAR777 (840)
• Philippines
1 Jan 10
then let it be seasoned through time. You have a lifetime of learning anyway.
That is good if that is the case.
@schummi (924)
• India
1 Jan 10
Well...i think love is more about giving than expecting something from the other person......i think every relationship has its special moments...Relish those moments and move ahead.....
@indocorner (546)
• Indonesia
2 Jan 10
"more about giving than expecting" hhmm..... yeah, I agree with u but human is just human...I mean that one day people might get bored always giving without any back-response. Such feeling is just a human nature.
@XxDreamzXx (20)
• United States
2 Jan 10
I have been in a few relationships but I know none of them were the right person. For me when I meet the right person...he'll be wonderful, it will probably never happen because I've been watching anime recently (such a nerd) and anime guys are sweet. So I want my guy to be like an anime guy but I doubt that'll happen, but i'm still young and I have a full life ahead of me so all I do is hope for the best.
@codiecoco (65)
• United States
2 Jan 10
When you meet the right person you become thankful for the way you were treated in the past and all of the people who hurt you. The reason is, if they haven't hurt you, you wouldn't be with who you are now.
I have many times thought I was in love and the next boyfriend was always better than the last. But I never realized what love truly was until I met my husband. He is an amazing man. And sure we have our differences but we work stuff out more than argue, we smile and laugh, we are great together and okay when we are apart for a little bit. It's a wonderful feeling knowing I have met the man God has created for me to be with. :)
@kashers (649)
• Jamaica
2 Jan 10
seems like u have been through alot with experiences and spouses,well u know now how to choose and thats what experiences r about,making the right choices,its still hard to say that this person won't b a heart breaker,cause things can look great now but the challenges to come will prove in time if he is the one u truly wanna b with,so my advice is to be more observant and the relationship and don't get too carried away by feelings,u still haven't past the worst times yet,
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
2 Jan 10
Yeah its true that only the person who feel that love can say when he is the right person. But, I have a friend who had the same feeling and thoughts like you and suddenly after a long time together, they just got separated. We felt bad about it.
Maybe, I can say it is in the context of the relationship for a person to realize that he is the right person. When it comes in proper place and time. When both of you brings out the best in yourselves. When both cannot live far from each other.
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
2 Jan 10
My husband and I felt an instant connection when we first met and have always been completely comfortable with each other. It's great that your boyfriend makes you so happy and that he treats you so well. I don't know how long you've been together but every relationship goes through the "he/she can do no wrong" stage in the beginning. The key is whether or not that feeling lasts. If your boyfriend is considerate and caring...that's wonderful...but is he a hard worker, dependable and does he want to build a solid life with you? The mundane, day to day living is just as important as those butterflies you feel when you're together.
@abhi_bangal (5533)
• Ahmednagar, India
2 Jan 10
I think you are right when you say that one can know when the right persone comes along. It does not require only the sixth sense of a female to recognize such things. Even a man can recognize this. It all depends of the mind and the heart and not taking the head into account. I think, head has no place in love. You cannot love anyone with your head, but you need a good heart and a caring mind to do so. The person cares so much for you and does not even think bad for you. You feel very very secured in such a situation. I think that is the point to understand such things.
@valentinesdiner (1214)
• United States
2 Jan 10
When all the sappy love songs make sense. When you hear the songs about moon and June and finding someone who supports your dreams.
