define love???

Many people believe love is a sensation that magically generates when Mr. or Ms. Right appears. No wonder so many people are singleA few years ago, I spoke to a group of high-schoolers about the Jewish idea of love. "Someone define love," I said. No response. "Doesn't anyone want to try?" I asked. Still no response. "Tell you what: I'll define it, and you raise your hands if you agree. Okay?" Nods. "Okay. Love is that feeling you get when you meet the right person." Every hand went up. And I thought, Oy. This is how many people approach a relationship. Consciously or unconsciously, they believe love is a sensation (based on physical and emotional attraction) that magically, spontaneously generates when Mr. or Ms. Right appears. And just as easily, it can spontaneously degenerate when the magic "just isn't there" anymore. You fall in love, and you can fall out of it. The key word is passivity. Erich Fromm, in his famous treatise "The Art of Loving," noted the sad consequence of this misconception: "There is hardly any activity, any enterprise, which is started with such tremendous hopes and expectations, and yet, which fails so regularly, as love." (That was back in 1956 -- chances are he'd be even more pessimistic today.) So what is love -- real, lasting love? Love is the attachment that results from deeply appreciating another's goodness.

There is no definition for love.

LOVE IS LIFE.