How does it feels to know you have c a nc e r and you are facing the death??

United States
January 3, 2010 8:07pm CST
Four months ago my aunt was [pro nos ti cat] with breast cancer, when she told my mom, she started crying and its something really sad. she is in a [radio t er a phys] ,that make her weak, she[d o es n t] want it no more she say she wants to die and over this safer, but shes starting praying to god, going to church, more close to him that now she feels better, happy, that she wants to live more! The interesting thing its that god gives you life but any time he want, it take it away from you!What will you feel if your doctor tells you that you have cancer??? DO you know some one?? Is this person close to you?
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@myramae19 (667)
• Philippines
4 Jan 10
hi lightdiamond Yes very close to my heart. she's my MOTHER. that was three years ago, August 23 2006, when we find out that my mother is at stage one lympoma cancer, its a cancer in the large intestine.That time my heart is bursting with pain, I feel that its hopeless..But I also believe that prayer is powerful above all things, so.. she's been diagnose for how many times, we spent a lot of money in her treatment,hospitalization,medicines. There is a time that we can not eat of sadness.. thinking that she'll be leaving us any monument., But things went Good my mother been cured from cancer . we are all so thankful to God for giving my mom a second life. Just put all your trust to jesus. In times like this... Depend everything to GOD.
• United States
4 Jan 10
Hi myramae, Thats incredible.. I feel happy for you and your mom,God make so many wishes I love Jesus ,I wish you the the for you, your mom and you family.. Now that God gave her a chanse of life its because she have a porpuse for life.. Just remeber make her happy evertime. Take care Kenny Herrera
@maezee (41988)
• United States
4 Jan 10
I think I would be afraid at first but follow the "steps" to self-acceptance and acceptance of my fate in a very resolute way. I know that I've been amazingly blessed with health for the 19 years that I've been alive, but I know that God, or whoever controls us, has many other things in store for us in the future. I'm not even an avid believer in God, but I think that there's some kind of spirituality involved with dying prematurely; you have a greater purpose elsewhere, I would say. It's truly unfortunate that your aunt has developed cancer; but I'm glad that she's also developed a more positive outlook on things. A little hope never hurt anyone. I hope all is well and that she continues to fight cancer. Hopefully they caught it early on enough and she can beat it. Best wishes.
• United States
4 Jan 10
Thanks for you undertanding, hopefully shes geting better, the problem is that she lives in my country, Peru and they dont have that developement of theequip to fight the cancer very well ... But now that shes going to church and getting more involverd with good her life is changing.. HOpe she wins the fight with cancer... good luk my friend.;]
@BinaryKat (735)
• United States
4 Jan 10
If I ever had found out I had cancer, I know it would really have me make sure I got all my ducks in a row. I would really want to get right with God seriously especially then and spend as much time as I could each day with my family. Tomorrow is never promised so if you happen to wake up the next day, count your blessings. I had lost close family members to cancer and my closest auntie has survived uterine cancer. It made her really look back on her life and be more grateful that they were able to remove all the cancer through hysterectomy. I remember staying with her for two weeks while she was recovering and we talked about things we hadn't before. I am grateful that I haven't encountered cancer and hope to never ever get it. I have seen what it did to my husband's mom and it broke my heart.