Never judge people before you know them....
By hotsht2
@hotsht2 (71)
United States
January 3, 2010 11:30pm CST
Most girls go for the cool guys or the better looking ones, the ones with money, or the ones that have the muscles. Am i right? they would prefer those ones over an average guy everytime. its not fair. honestly it really isnt fair to those guys. those guys that the girls overlook to get to the better prize that they think at the time, but end up getting hurt in the end everytime. it makes me sad to think about it, but they miss and overlook the good guys that have been right in front of them the whole time, and those guys are the ones that will treat you right and give you the love and respect that you diserve... but you'll never no will you... all im saying girls, is get to no the guy before you judge him. there are alot of jerks out there and very few good guys, please dont rush things ladies... one mistake could haunt you for a very long time. I'm interested in any past stories that you have ladies, and guys to. was he a jerk? or did she not realize you were there for her? that you loved her and cared for her more then any other could? Responses...?
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@classicemcegy79 (152)
• United States
5 Jan 10
I think your argument is not valid.
I used to go only after what you call the average guys. To me, they weren't average. They were different and in some ways better than "the cool, better-looking, richer guys" Sure, those guys may have their perks, but from personal experience -and there are exceptions, so don't jump down my throat- these types of guys tend to be arrogant and rude.
However, the average guy also tends to not notice things. Once I dated an average guy, and even when I spelled things out, he just couldn't get it. That relationship was a disaster. I look for guys better than that; what you call average.
