Went to the zoo with my kids and there were so many people there.
By mommaj
@mommaj (23112)
United States
January 4, 2010 7:04pm CST
The zoo was so packed that in some areas you couldn't even move until someone else did. I hate places when it's like that because I am always scared about my daughter "wandering" away if she makes a friend. LOL My autistic son I have a leash for so he can't get lost. After going through the zoo, I am so glad I had the leash with me. Four different incidents of "lost" children occured that I knew of. The children came past crying for mommy and no one answered. Three of the parents weren't far, and of the three one had an empty stroller and walked off without the child. We yelled at her and asked if she forgot someone. I can't believe people's carelessness. The fourth child was so lost we had to take him to a zoo employee to find his parents. You just wanted to pick him up and tell him it was okay, but you don't dare in case someone says you took him. I was lucky that a worker came by in less than two minutes. What would you have done? Would your child have gotten lost in a situation like that?
7 responses
@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
5 Jan 10
Hi Mommaj,
What? Parents must be on guard of their kids especially in a crowd like that. I already experienced attending to lost kids and the first thing I do is talk to the kid if he or she can give some information about themselves. Then I report or bring them to the management or guard (mall or park). I even requested mall staff in-charge over the PA system to announce the name of the boy who’s looking for his mom. I did not leave him until finally the parents got him.
If ever it will happen to me—one of my special kids will be missing I will ask the guard to watch out for all the people with kid going our of the mall, report the incident to the police and everything that I think will help me get a lead and find my child. BUT I WILL NOT ALLOW THIS TO HAPPEN. Every time we go out with the kids, we give full attention and really holding them tight to make sure that they will just be there by our side.
@Canellita (12029)
• United States
5 Jan 10
The first time I saw a child on a leash I was one of those people making jokes. Things can happen so quickly, especially in a crowd and you just can not be too careful especially with a special needs child. There are too many predators out there.
@msfrancisco9369 (10002)
• Boston, Massachusetts
5 Jan 10
they are more behaved now than before so not much effort but still we're used to holding them tight because anytime they can slip out and run. we had this experience beofre in the mall we're we chased my eldest son as he runs so fast that he bumped some of the shoppers.
@rajgiri12 (46)
• India
5 Jan 10
hello friend, i went to zoo last month with my friend.it was very large zoo which is situed in calcatta. I see there different types of animal which is very rare. I see there different types of birds, I SEEN THERE DIFFERENT ANIMAL THAT WAS ZIRAFF i have never seen any where.
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
6 Jan 10
In crowded situations young children can easily get lost. My sister took her children to shop and my little niece ran and hid. Everyone searched for her and called her name. Eventually she came out and my sister got her back. In the school holidays I imagine the zoo might be packed with people.
In January 2009 I took my toddler son to South Africa. We went on a two and a half hour safari. On it we rode in a jeep with the guide. We saw lions, giraffes, rhinos, zebras and crocodiles. My son has got spina bifida and hydrocephalus. It is lovely to hear about your autistic son and your outing to the zoo.
@mommaj (23112)
• United States
6 Jan 10
I try to take the kids to the zoo a couple times a month. (We have a year pass). Only once did I have to leave the zoo because he sat down on the concrete path and threw a fit. I tried to talk him up and he wouldn't move, so I picked him up and carried him to the vehicle. Most of the times he is truly wonderful.
@amirev777 (4117)
• India
5 Jan 10
hi
i knw that as kids going to zoo was the best experience i can ever remember...i knw as kids how much i enjoyed going to zoo...but i cant say the same thing anymore..i m now growing old!!!!!!
@edu4625 (188)
• United States
5 Jan 10
I am so shocked at how many parents don't fully pay attention to their children. A child can get lost or hurt in a matter of minutes. You can literally take your eyes off a child for a couple of seconds and lose eyesight of them because they move so quickly.
I think holding their hands or using something that keeps them physically connected to you is a great idea when you're in public or a crowded place.It's much better to be a little over-cautious than careless when it comes to a child's safety.
It must be a terrible experience for a child to feel they've lost their parents. Many of them look absolutely terrified. Parents have to stay aware when it comes to their children. This is part of the responsibility of being a parent.
Unfortunately in our society children are not as safe as they use to be and the very people we use to depend on taking care of our children are the ones abusing them or harming them. We can't say to our children anymore that someone is an adult and that makes him or her a safe person to be around.
I feel that if I were responsible for a child that this situation would have a very low chance of happening. My first priority would be in taking care of the child and making sure he is safe and comfortable.
@mommaj (23112)
• United States
5 Jan 10
It's a horrible society that we live in that we can't trust anyone and we can't help a child. I was actually just writing an article about how to return a child. Just like you, most people would want to make the child safe and comfortable. The first priority is finding someone to find the parents. You don't want to be sued for taking the child or touching the child. No hugs for the children. Isn't that an awful way to have to think. I told my husband it was good that I had my kids with me, because I couldn't hug the little child. To see such a face and feel helpless to comfort the child is horrible too.
@myfb2009 (8296)
• Malaysia
5 Jan 10
I think when parents want to bring their children to a very crowded place like, zoo, they should know how to take good care of their own children. They should make sure that their children don't go wandering the places by themselves, as zoo is a very crowded and dangerous place to wander alone by children. Whenever i bring my son out to a crowded place, i always make sure that my son is always at my side. I never allowed him to wandering the place all by himself. It's better be careful then feel sorry later is of no use.
@mommaj (23112)
• United States
5 Jan 10
I don't let my children wander anywhere by themselves. Sometimes it's hard to make sure toddlers are by your side unless you have a stroller, leash, or are holding their hand. I hate seeing little ones walking alone anywhere. They are so small someone could easily bump into them without noticing. It is the parents job to protect their children and I wonder if all those parents were even bothered by the fact their children were "lost". The good news is none of the children were taken from the zoo. There was a miranda alert the same day though. That means someone kidnapped a child. Those parents should have went home and thanked God it wasn't their child.
@rane247 (78)
• Philippines
5 Jan 10
If that situation will occur to me as I've experienced to be lost when I was a child and I empathized the feeling a child being lost I'll help the child or if the parents or guardian are nearby I'll also ask if they lost something or so. Like you, I also feel bad for the child if the parents were so careless. I remember the last time I lost when I was about 11 yrs old, I think. It is really not good feeling because you feel alone in the strange world. It was actually my fault because I followed the wrong dad that's why I was lost. I still don't have children but I'm definitely will not allow my child to get lost in those situations. For me, parents have a responsibility to take good care of their children. Have a Nice MYLOTTING day! :)
@mommaj (23112)
• United States
5 Jan 10
I feel so bad for little ones when they are scared and crying. You want to make everything okay for them and you can't be sure that you can. I felt so bad for him and I am sure if his parents had any decency they were feeling the same way the child was. Before we left the zoo, I did ask the worker if he found the child's parents and he said yes. I just wonder how long that took.