Better to have love and lost then never to have loved at all? probably not...

United States
January 4, 2010 8:37pm CST
to me it seems a better idea to stay away from love. its complicated and confusing. and if you have loved before and lost, what does that mean or say? it means that you have been hurt and suffered the pain of losing someone so close to you, or that you have hurt someone before and have broken their heart... being loved and loving someone is the best feeling, but if the relationship goes sour it could hurt for a very long time, and be the worst feeling ever. what do you think? love and lost, or never to love?...
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donsky14
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
5 Jan 10
For me, its better to have love then not experience it at all. Because loving and being love is the greatest feeling there is. So not being able to feel it is like missing half of your life.
hotsht2
@hotsht2 (71)
• United States
5 Jan 10
maybe... but if you get hurt in the process, its feels like your whole world is over and comes crashing down... the worst feeling
donsky14
@donsky14 (5947)
• Philippines
5 Jan 10
Well its something that you have to risk. I guess being brave is a must in falling in love as well.
rocker21
@rocker21 (2716)
• India
6 Jan 10
love is a very sober experience of being kicked behind real hard! ;) try it...you'll love been kicked again and again, a pain which u'll love!!!
krystalheart
@krystalheart (842)
• Philippines
5 Jan 10
Hi there... It is better to love than not to love at all. Loving is the most wonderful feeling in this world especially if the person you love also feels the same way with you. . It is unavoidable to lost a love ones or to end a love from someone else, but the important thing is that you have experienced to love and be loved.
dependent
@dependent (131)
• China
5 Jan 10
no,even u are hurted by love ,you connot deny it just try one more time ,u will find love is more sweet than u thought by the way ,by ur logic ,whether we should travel by plane is a matter,because we have the potential dangers~~~~~~~come on ,man
syabu78
@syabu78 (29)
• China
5 Jan 10
Love is the wonderful thing in the world. Surely, sometimes it can hurt you seriously when you lose someone important to you, but it will be a great memory in the future. Then you will cherish this memory of love, even though it hurt you so much. So, to love or to be loved, you will never regret to it.