Complicated love
By JoieGahum
@JOIEMARVIC (2335)
Philippines
January 4, 2010 10:05pm CST
Staying with someone you really love even if you know you two can't be together for a lot of reasons is like standing under the rain... It feels good but you know it will soon make you sick."
What are your opinions about this? Right know I am experiencing this.The sad part is I can't find the courage to let go. Help help please.
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4 responses
@se7enthbird (8307)
• Philippines
5 Jan 10
if your in a situation were one of you are married then you are in a lot of trouble. you need to let go even it is hard for you will still be the one who will get wounded in the end. i was once in a complicated relationship. my parents want me to marry someone i dont love, so they dont like my girl friend. now we are married for 7 years still a few of my relatives included my father still holds this hate face. but we held hands and fight for our love. if your love is worth fighting for then go and fight for it. but if it is complicated as you will be the one who will get hurt in the end then end is as soon as possible. hope you can find the courage to let go.
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
6 Jan 10
I agree to what u have said so its the person itself as well as people around who get affected . by fighting over those things which might not be of much importance get evolved which in return effect individuals upon to fight individual require to change themselves according to circumstances not only but according to a individual behavior i hope you will be able to change someone in your house love to your god keep them happy.
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
6 Jan 10
This , what you have said about is true. Love is like a addiction which a person cannot get away from.feelings inside us attracts to other person as such it could be attraction ,internal behavior and many other ways also. I have also same problem. I try to remain happy as threw remaining happy feelings also develops inside us along with which our environment around us remains in good form so. true love is hard in life not everyone can acquire it i wish to god to find someone who would make your life with full of love ,love u much than u do so.
@laydee (12798)
• Philippines
5 Jan 10
Think of it this way, yes you think you love him and he loves you, but are you sure you could be okay with it if he finds someone new? I mean, if he could replace his family right now for you, what is stopping him from looking for other flames once he feels you're boring?
Just remember the golden rule: Don't do unto others what you don't want others to do unto you.
If you feel it's okay to 'share' partners, then it's up to you. Just don't cry in the end if you find that your man prefers to be with another.
Good luck, and I hope some day you would realize that you deserve full happiness and not just scraps of love.
@starlight70 (316)
• Malaysia
5 Jan 10
Wow! I have never thought of such simile to use, but I think it is a good one, to associate the rain with one who is under the spell of love.
Unfortunately, I think I am in this boat too, and pretty bad enough, I may have to ride the boat on my own. I am in love with someone right now, and due to a certain situation, I have to let the person go. This relationship, no matter how beautiful it is right now, is never meant to last. I was told the timing was bad. I just feel like it is another down of life that I have been cursed with.
So, what do I do?
Enjoy the relationship as long as we both can. Then, when the day comes for us to go our own ways, I just have to be a man about it. I think I'll treasure the memories a lot. It is more like it is best to love than not to love at all.