Laziness
By atebuds
@atebuds (187)
Philippines
January 5, 2010 2:59am CST
My husband has his own manufacturing business. But I don't see it as a stable work for him because he only depends on the demand. Meaning, he only does orders from clients. And it is not everyday that the clients order. And there are several times that he doesn't get any order at all. Which means, months or even a year of no work.
My problem is, when he has no work, he just stays at home, lying down in bed, watching tv the whole day. He doesn't even bother to help in the household chores, (we don't have a maid),and I and my children suffer because he keeps on calling (and even yelling) on us to do things for him. He is like a lord and master, while we are his servants. Imagine not even trying to get up to pick something from his side-table. He just really has to call anyone of us, just to give him what he needs, even if it is just a foot away from him. And he does this in anything he is doing. There always has to be someone beside him to do things for him.
I talked to him already, but he said, he is like that because he is used to having a maid. Well, well, well... Modesty aside, I was born with a silver spoon in my mouth. Talk about having maids. But I am definitely not a lazy person. I haven't seen someone ever in my life who is as lazy as him. He is just SO LAZY... He is always tired, even if he is just lying down in bed, watching tv. He also eats his snacks lying down.
I was just wondering, isn't it very unhealthy for a person to keep on lying down? May I just ask for some enlightenment. Thank you...
1 response
@vaibhavi80 (243)
• India
5 Jan 10
it is really pathetic. I think he is the person who has no responsible for anything. You r suffer a lot bcaz of him it is sound in your writing. he should go out and realize that if he is the master than he has to increase his work.
@atebuds (187)
• Philippines
5 Jan 10
When he's angry, he'll tell me, "why not find yourself a job, and I'll stay here at home". And? Leave the house topsy-turvy because all he does is lie down in bed? If I only knew that he was like this, I wouldn't have married him ever! Thanks for your comment, Vaibhavi80.