What do you think about ON and OFF relationships?

i don't think it'll go working either. excepting the girl can give a reasonable explain, your friend should think of their relationship very carefully. if the girl likes your friend she shouldn't leave without any news. maybe she'll say she has some difficulties, but i think nothing can separate the lovers. if your friend loves the girl very much and cannot forget her forever, he can try to talk to her and ask what's plan does she have in the future. if your friend consider that's ok, that's ok! good luck to your friend!

I don't think so either that it's good or even it will work better for them when they decided to tie the knot. For me On and OFF relationship is not good and will kill relationships. Imagine how trustworthy was the girl and when he's boyfriend is not around, what is the difference whey they got married? Why it does have to be an On and Off when you can always keep it ON though you're apart?

I don't think a on & off relationship really works. Because once you let it stay that way, the relationship will not really last long. I have been into that kind of relationship before. Until I decided to end it. Because it is going nowhere. And we always hurt each other. To stop it & start a new life, I decided to end it.

Relationships cannot be considered if they can be on and off at desired times.True love can exist despite any factor,here distance.In fact,distance is no more a hindrance when you can reach your beloved anytime with the help of cell phones,emails and web cam chats.Technology has far developed that only thing you can't do is sense each other physically.Only the minds has narrowed to see advantage in even pure love.

hi,daliaj,i think that it`s hard to judge their relationship,it seems like that the girl is not so nice,but in fact,we don`t know why the girl left without a word,maybe she was hurt too,anyway,wish your fiend figure it out and being happy

My opinion of this is that this behavior is quite common for teenagers but in older age there really shouldn't be any place for this. Its either you can work it out, you give it a second chance. after that you should move on frankly

I think in on and off relationships either the couple is immature. Why is the need to get off the relationship once you have got whom you love, by the grace of god? And if by the stroke of misfortune, you dopart ways, I think you should never meet again in life. If you have to part ways, then that should be for good. You should not even think of that person again. I don't like that idea myself that is why I am saying so much about it. There are some couples, on the other hand, who always quarrel and stop talking to each other. Then after some days they again are on good terms. They can't help from seeing each other again. But then this has two parts. One is that you are bound to be off in your relation. But that can happen in espcially love. Being apart actually brings you nearer. Now it is for themselves to decide how to keep their relationship going.

For me, an on and off relationship is difficult to deal with. Yes, it may be romantic if the person came back to you and still loves you. But it's also heartbreaking if the person is still seeing other people. It may also make the other person take you for granted for continuously accepting him or her despite the infidelity.