Do you ask why are you are born woman/man?

Philippines
January 6, 2010 2:04am CST
I asked that all the time? What is the reason I am a woman? There are so many hardship I am experiencing now, if I was a man can this hardship became few? Do I get to solve those problems , I am much stronger when when I am a man or it is still the same? Do God made me a woman for an important purpose that only I can do? If I were to ask I like to be a man. For me being a woman is a disadvantage, but what can I do that is the gender given to me. I think I should treat my gender as my blessing instead of disadvantage. Maybe there are some things that I can’t do when I will be a man. How about you? Have you ask yourself the same thing?
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5 responses
@izathewzia (5134)
• Philippines
6 Jan 10
I asked that same question to myself, too especially during my younger years. Why am I born a woman instead of a man? Because I felt like I am more thinking, talking & doing things like a real man does. I have a very strong personality that almost similar to man. Until I realized that maybe God made me this way so I can stand on my own. That even I am a woman, I can carry myself well like other men does.
• Philippines
6 Jan 10
Oh you felt you are more of a man or thinking like a man than a woman. That is great, how do you think about that? On the other hand, some men can't carry themselves just like us sometimes. Thanks for the response.
• Pamplona, Spain
8 Sep 10
Hiya grecy, Sometimes I would like to be a Man for all the freedom they seem to have at least where I live (grin). Being a Woman has it´s perks you know all those cool things like being able to have Babies, bring them up, be Mom and Dad at the same time. Always be there when they need you. What else really I am quite happy being a Woman for now. Have had hard times too some pretty rough ones but I have come through them. So yes I would prefer to be a Woman. I suppose being a Man has it´s better side to it as well but for now I really can´t think of many. Prefer to stay as I am thank you grecy.
@balasri (26537)
• India
17 Jun 10
It is the freak division of the chromosomes that made us what we are,man or a woman.But I believe that there must be a strong reason for why a person is born male or female.Everything has a reason and everything has the best qualities in the creation of God.One day you will realize the greatness of yours.
@johndur (3052)
• Pasig, Philippines
17 Feb 10
i dont ask those questions because i am contented with what i am and i am thankful that i am a man.i may not be the most handsome man in the world but i have qualities much better than those who are more good looking than i am.
@adhyz82 (36249)
• Indonesia
2 Mar 10
hm, iam proud to be a man and i never think to ask why i was born as a man.God had created to me as a man, so i must thanks to Him. so it`s my suggestion to you. you must be proud to be woman.