Love at first sight

Well to be very frank I do not believe in love at first sight.To be more precise I do not believe in this love at all.I know it sounds weird and made-up and dramatic and all,but that is what the truth is. I have had a boyfriend about two and a half years back.We were very good friends at first and realized we were in love after 5 months of knowing each other. The relation did not last even four months. It was he who started it,proposing to me at first and saying all the good things in the world.And finally it was he who ended it. I really loved him a lot and still cannot seem to get him out of my mind. So now somehow I do not trust any boy in matters of heart.

i don't believe in love at first sight because you cannot judge the person at the first time..love at first sight is just infatuation..I too had developed a crush on a person and thought it to be love at first sight but I never expressed my feeling to him immediately and i'm happy that i didn't because gradually with time i discovered he was a jerk and unreliable..and i'm happy.Love happens accidentally because at the time of my admission in the college,while i was at a hotel my mom called me out and she introduced me to a guy,whom at first sight thought to be arrogant but he turned to be my classmate and i started hanging around with him..we became friends and now we are more than friends...

TAKE A SECOND LOOK CLOSER TO MY AVATAR. Now I know you believed with the love at first sight? :) hehe . Just kidding! Well, for me I believed at love at first sight because there are times or situation that you see a very attractive someone and you put your focus there. Then you find that she's really attractive. Well, i always experience it when i'm in unfamiliar place. But that's only a crush for me and not a love. :)

HI dayeem, i read all responses and i am also 19years old really i don't why girls behaved like this.i am a girl but i don't think like this whole life.and i think love is a friendship.

I had heard that love is always blind so there is no question of sight..!

I had heard that love is blind...so what is question of sight?

Really i don't know meaning of true love at the first sight. I just feeling in my heart that i love him. Not every women love a men because money, money and money. May be you do find a girl friend from sexy body and beautiful so ( sorry ). You will find the best girl friend. Just trust the love in your heart.

I never believe in love at first sight..never in my whole life... I think that kind of love is so physical in nature, and far from true love... no matter how many time you look at it, its just lust...

Hi.. Later when you get older you will realized that there is no such thing as love at first sight. You will then overcome that pain and try to love again. That I am sure of.

I made a big mistake too at 19years old. and the girl left me for years. while she told me she love my money, I have not managed her again. But I really love her. So I have to tell myself what I don't love others easily.

The love at first sight is like a 50-50 game in the life. Because you are evaluating someone by a second, and getting into love without knowing them properly or more deeply. Girls of modern age mostly like to go with a guy who would be a nice display item for her in front of her friends, and in the public, one who takes her to movie, one who takes her for shopping and take care of all her expenses. Such girls are not loving the guy who is with them, but their money and the luxury they had presented to her. So, if some day the guy is not able to shell out money for her she will gradually show dissatisfaction with him and will soon leave him. There are only rare girls who believe in true love, to whom love is above money and luxury. I remember one of my chat friend who proposed to me, who was from a very very rich family. She used to call me on mobile, and our friendship turned into a love from her side. I told her that if she wish to come with me, i cannot guarentee even half the luxury she is enjoying today. Her answer was, i just want to be with you only., and i can be a normal girl without any luxury because i see you above all those luxury. Unfortunately, that good friend is still my best friend, and more than a friend. She cannot be my wife in any instance because i am already engaged with my lover 1 and half years before she proposed me and my lover is also same like her, thats why i got engaged with her :). I told i'm already engaged, and she agreed with it very sadly. Actualy i used the word "Unfortunately", because i am not sure i can find any other girl like her again in my life. Whoever might be her future husband, he is very very lucky. Because she is cute, beautiful, well educated and from a respected very rich family, and sees relationships as greater than luxury. God bless her. -Jithin :)