How did you past relationship/s end?
By lorelieyap
@lorelieyap (17)
Philippines
January 7, 2010 12:57am CST
It is funny that this question popped up into my mind. Maybe because I'm already in the stage where I feel like time is running short but still I'm way behind reaching my dreams and goals in life. When you're already in that stage you also begin to think of what were you in the past and whom you were with. It is not that I'm already old. I'm still in my mid- twenties. It is not also because I'm a loser since I'm currently a Supervisor in one of the top companies here in our country. It is just because it is fun to reminisce. Looking back I begin to realize that I was also part of the reason why my past relationshipds did not work out fine. I begin to realize how childish I was then.Maybe If I was more considerate or mature my last relationship before the current one will not end that bad. Maybe because it is human nature, during that time I felt like I was the only one who was right and it was all my partner's fault why we sometimes fight or argue. Thinking about it now makes me laugh. During that time it was hard for me to accept that I was also at fault but right now that it has been almost two years already when it happened it is easier to accept and say that I was actually the one who was at fault why my last relationship ended. :(
3 responses
@tobielin (8)
• United States
7 Jan 10
my relationship just ended last friday. we were supposed to be getting married in may. the thing is, i tried to look past all the signs that were telling me to run the other way. he was controlling. he only wanted me to do my toenails when he said that i could. he wanted all my time on the weekends and would whine if it didnt go his way. he held my engagement ring hostage and never even popped the question and the list goes on. but i realized that if i was not happy now, there was no way that i would be happy once we got married. i had my little issues and for those i accept my fault.
@lorelieyap (17)
• Philippines
8 Jan 10
In my opinion, you did the right thing. I would never want to be with someone who would control my life forever. I don't want the time to come that even me would no longer recognize or know who I am.
@ganesavel (5)
• India
7 Jan 10
I have 2 realtionhips in my past one in my school days and the othe rin my college days , May be because of the reason that I didn't have enough money to buy the gifts she asked my relationship broke with my first partner, Abot my second partner she asked me to sleep with her when I was allmost exhausted and she took it personaly that i was humilating her and she quit my relationship
@lorelieyap (17)
• Philippines
8 Jan 10
In your first relationship, did the girl really broke up with you because of material reasons?
@maria1081 (1251)
• Philippines
7 Jan 10
My last relationship ended more than two years ago and until now I'm still single by choice. It ended because we have to be separated by distance and he wasn't able to commit with long distance relationship.
@lorelieyap (17)
• Philippines
8 Jan 10
This is exactly what happened to me and my last boyfriend. However, I now have a partner in life and a 3 months old baby. I can still remember how we would always fight because I would confront him over the phone, via text message or email why he has not been communicating with me. Until one day I got so fed up and called it over between the two of us. :( I tried though to have him back but I guess it was too late since he no longer wants me back.
