having a baby at 18

January 7, 2010 7:28am CST
i am 18 years old and me and my bf have been together for a while now we both want a baby and have been trying really hard do you think 18 is to young to be planning a family?
3 responses
@daliaj (5674)
• India
7 Jan 10
You are an adult now you have all rights to decide on this because it is your personal matter. I have a different opinion, but this is only my opinion and I am not telling you to follow that. I think that it is good to have a baby only when you are financially in a good stage to support the baby. Other than financial situation, it is important to think about the health of the parents and the situations available to take care of the baby. I am sure that it will be fun to have a baby at 18. Then, you will have the heath to take care of your grand children. It is good to have a baby at young age if the financial situation is good. Oh, you made my mind full of thoughts about having a baby. I have been married for one year and thinking about having a baby. I am 28.
8 Jan 10
thank you daliaj that is a bit help. i have been wanting a baby since i was about 15. i have found my man and want to share the rest of the time with him we both have good stable jobs and are looking for a place to live. some poeple live on benifits all there life which i am not going to do we want our little one to be brought up with the right people and not wanting for anything x you should talk to your partner about it maybe he feels the same ... let me know yeah xxx
@maximax8 (31046)
• United Kingdom
9 Jan 10
Every lady is different. Some ladies feel ready to have a baby at age eighteen whilst others would rather wait until their mid twenties. Some eighteen year olds are involved in studying and some are at the beginning of their career. Not every eighteen year old is ready for motherhood. Having a young baby is demanding and the expense begins during pregnancy. A baby needs a cot, bedding, bottles, toys, nappies and a bouncy chair. In the first year there are many baby clothes to buy and in the pregnancy maternity clothing can be pricey. A young baby needs care 24 hours a day 7 days a week. Night feeds can be tiring after a birthing experience. I love my baby girl. She is now 6 months old. I hope that it will go well if you begin your family now. I wish you lots of luck and know My Lot is a great place to discuss parenting. At age eighteen I completed my college course. Then I worked for a family in Finland as a children's nanny. Then I came home and got a job at a ship brokers. I bought a house when I was age nineteen. At age twenty I was made redundant and I took off my own journey around the world. I got married and had my first baby at age twenty-two.
• United States
7 Jan 10
In my opinion yes I think it is too young unless you are stable and financially prepared. Having a baby is a beautiful thing but if you are not prepared financially and stabilly it will be hard for you guys. Also you have your whole life ahead of you.