As a parents/brother have you ever bullied your daughter's/sister suitors?

Too bad, i dun have any sister, and i dun have any daughters too.. lol =D BUt if i have a younger sister, i will be sure to protect her, in the best possible way i can, for she's my sister.. As a guy, i know what most guys can do, and will do, whenever there's chance or whatever.. Thus, i will be protective, but not to the extend of controlling her. I will make her learn thru the hard way, but not let her regret.. haha =D

I might not be in your wanted category, but I am a woman and I have overprotective brother and father and I never introduce my boyfriends to them. I am sure that my brother and father will get an invitation to the wedding when it comes to that, but I am also pretty sure that they won't meet a boyfriend of mine before that time comes :)

This also can be turned around as Sister protects the brother from makeing big mistakes. My daughter di this to her brother and we finally found him a good wife!

My daughter is 13 soon to be 14 and thankfully has not started dating yet. I am really not looking forward to that, I imagine I will be worried all the time once she is. I will try not to be to over protective, but I will not allow car dates until she is 16. If she and a boyfriend want to go some where before that the boys parents or us will have to take them. Also and no being a lone in her room.

on my younger years, those days of courtships, my parents was never become strict on me, they are open in these things and actually they are happy when they see that guys are visiting me home & not courting me on the street or just anywhere... and i am happy that they are not that interrogative when it comes to my suitors...they give us time and wait for me to open up with them... sometimes, they would tease me, specially my mom, its sometimes embarrassing for me, but i don't really mind, but even if they are not strict, they are also full of advises and reminders to me...they are telling me that they have nothing against even if i ill be having a bf as long as i should know my limits... no, with my brother, well i think i am more protective to him than my parents...but i don't have a problem when he courts someone that i don't like, i will just give my opinion to him and some advices, but when the girl is already his gf...i always try to be nice to her and i want them to feel comfortable on me... and again, i always give advises & reminders to them... i do respect my brother's feelings and i am here to support him and not to dictate him...

When we were children I was a bit mean to my younger sister. I used to throw her dolls on the roof of our house and once I even gave her bad carpet burn on her back after I dragged her through the house. I am six years older than her, so when we were kids, we did not really have a lot in common. But now that we are both in our 30's with our own children, we get along really well. She forgives me for my past sins and we have a laugh at all of the mean things that I did to her.

I have never done that to any of my daughter's suitors before. I do set them straight as far as how they should treat my daughter though. I think parents should make sure the rules are set forth from the start.

I have a brother but he is not sharing who is his crush until now. I know he have someone he like but I believe he is not making a move to court her. He is still young though. I think I will not bully her, maybe my brother will get bullied by the older brother of the one he likes, hopefully not. I wish my brother to finished his study before getting into that level. Moreover, my parents are not aware who were my suitors are, actually I was the one who bullied my suitors for them to avoid me.

not really.. well for one i am the youngest..so i only have my elder brother to pest hahaha but then i was not like that before. hehe i was like his side kick hahaha. it was always fun hanging around with him and his gf before..it was like having an older sister..and from what i could remember, they would often treat me for a bbq and ice cream! lol

It is not a good action to do that. As long my sister is on right age (18 yrs old above). I will allow her to have suitor. Respect her decision to choose her Boyfriend. All I want is happiness of my sister.

Since I have older brothers it is a norm here in the country that they bully the boyfriend of their younger sisters. But my brothers are the best. They never showed any negative approach to my hubby and that is what I love about them. They respected my hubby and so every older brother out there, be nice to them because it does not hurt to show them that you respect them for who they are.

not in my family but in my neighbor, i have a friend whose parents are so strict including her brother. they like to bully the girl suitors if they do not like their behavior sort of protection.

I only have one sister out of five siblings. When my sister do have many suitors coming in the house, my siblings often had to check him about his personal background. And the best way to do it is the let him join in one of our drinking sessions. That way we can ask whatever we want. Some don't go back again to our house while those who are persistent learn to mingle with us. My sister often get angry and tells us not to do it anymore, but we cannot drop it as we all love our second rose in the house. Actually, we don't bully the guy and we let him know what our intentions during the session.

Oh Yes, I tend to be overprotective with my family members suitors. I live in a household with my sister, cousin, and god niece, all female. If and/or when they have a boyfriend I'm not rude, and will give anyone a chance. However, I will be the first one to step up and say something if I see behavior, or personality traits that bother me. Friendship and trust with that person takes time and needs to be earned, on both sides. If that person is not a good influence or destructive in any way, as far as I'm concerned it's my obligation to say something, and it may sound harsh but I dont care if my family members or their suitors like it or not. Better to be honest and straight forward about it, than have any misgivings about someone just build up and fester until a much bigger problem is caused by it.

My younger brother does not bully my prospective suitors but he is so strict me and so funny that he is the one advising instead of me advising him. Boys are so protective with their sibling and the more they show it with their sister.

My parents never bullied my suitors but they only warn me avoiding hurting other people feeling is the safe way to do. it is best to know first the person than judging him.

Hey its not necessary that you should bully your daughter's /sisters suitors, instead you should talk to them frankly as a friend and put a close eye on them.