How do you handle death in the family?
By fourjems08
@fourjems08 (550)
Philippines
January 8, 2010 1:16am CST
My father died of heart attack on 2005. My grandfather (my father's dad)died of old age on 2007. Then to our surprise, my uncle (my father's younger brother)died of same situation as that of my father on 2009. Every 2 years, somebody close to me died. My grandfather's situation was acceptable. But for my father and uncle? It seems too much for me. Thinking of them still makes me cry. I missed them so much. Have you been in the same situation as I am? How did you handle it?
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3 responses
@Nymphantom (143)
• Vietnam
8 Jan 10
I understand how you feel :( I lost my granny in 2009 too. She was the person I loved the most in the family. Until now, whenever I think of her, I almost cry. It's so sad to lost your loved one. But dear, let time do its job. You can find someone close to you to talk about your dad, you granny, and your uncle, it will help you a bit. Just think about them whenever you feel like, don't hide your feeling. You need to accept the fact that they were gone. You may miss them, you may even cry, but all that sorrow will fade in no time, and then you will remember them with a smile and a fond memory.
Hope you all the best.
@Nymphantom (143)
• Vietnam
9 Jan 10
find a dependable friend and talk about it will help. You need someone to share the stress that you are already under :(
@bingchen (1119)
• China
9 Jan 10
i dont have been in the same situation.this is horrible new for you and make us sad.but i think that you still be happy to face your life.because you still live,maybe this hope seems slim.but i think that living people should treasure his owned life and smile to overcome everyday.although we have not unfortunate for this thing,but why do we look down on our life.actually unfaortunate thing still happened everyday.but they still hope that the god give them another chance to treasure their life.so why did you express so sad for yourself?it is not significant to compromise with the life.i think that you should make you happy and do some interesting and meaningful thing and be happy to pass the rest of your life.
