Do You "Feel Jealousy" when your friend told that ...........
By Baluyadav
@Baluyadav (3643)
India
8 responses
@vandana7 (100127)
• India
8 Jan 10
Well, I'd discard that friend immediately! LOL. Kidding. I know that is not a sincere statement. If I make that statement, then I have some request up my sleeve. :) That person will feel forced to do that because he or she is considered to be the most important, isn't it? LOL. I dont have any such sensitivity. :) I move as per right and wrong and sense of humor. :)
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@neelianoscet (9615)
• Philippines
8 Jan 10
I would be hypocrite if I say No, as deep inside my mind though it may not shown physically on my face and on my emotion deeply I feel slight jealousy as you treat the person more closer than your brother/sister and yet he/she fail to choose you and that is why i do not like to have a particular best friend. Instead only friends as to avoid competition as much as possible I like to treat everyone fairly but it seem favoritism exist at anyone which could not be avoided. If those situation happen to me then I would accept it as a fact as I could not dictate/demand a friend mind to say that i am the best among the best as their are friends even better than me and I accept it not as a mean of competition but as a part of a reality.
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@Baluyadav (3643)
• India
24 Feb 10
hi,thank you for sharing your views.All the best and have a nice time.
@Buchi_bulla (8298)
• India
9 Jan 10
I feel hurt if I hear such comment from my friend. I give full justice to my inter-personal relationships. There is absolutely no compromise in this respect. When I am so sincere in my friendship with my friend, when she says somebodyelse is important to her, naturally I will be hurt. It happened to me twice.
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@catdla1 (6005)
• United States
9 Jan 10
Good morning Baluyadav..well at least for me.
Initially I might feel a bit jealous, but logic would quickly take care of that. We may want to be all things to all people, but we can't be. More than likely the person telling you this isn't the most important person to you either. Can't be, because I've never told you anything like that.
@shoyebshaikh (23)
• India
8 Jan 10
ya it happens with lot of guys .wen a guy is talking wid a girl many boys say like this and tease them.but it is not like that because some of friends have same likes & dislikes so it is not neccesary one should get angry that time just leave that thought or pretend that you are listening to him
@vathsala30 (3732)
• India
8 Jan 10
Hi Balu
If my friend says that particular person is more important than any other........, I do not feel bad. Because if I am her friend, it does not mean that I should be important to her. like me she may be having lots of other friends too. Besides, if our likes and dislikes match with each other, we may become best friends but it is not sufficient to become an important person to her