never fall in love
By iqbal21
@iqbal21 (1)
Bangladesh
42 responses
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
8 Jan 10
Love is not about pain. In modern world no body can find true. Love rarely does someone get . It depends upon you only . Love someone not you love but someone who loves you. The person who loves you is the one who loves you the most. stop thinking she betrayed you think she was not meant for you, theres someone else made for you who might love more than you do so.
@Zuvin666 (25)
• India
9 Jan 10
Why we are so much concorned about luv?? Can anybody explains me the meaning of true luv?? So many broken hearts so many tears for betrayed luv but still in the end we gets another one. We always say that love that person who loves you or luv that person who amkes ur life beautiful or luv that person who makes u a better person but do u really think that luv can give u a job?? I already have got luv but not job. I need job rite this moment, so dude help me to get the job, we'll discuss luv after that brother..
@Zuvin666 (25)
• India
9 Jan 10
Dude i don't think luv will give u food to eat, home to live, car to ride and Fageecees dat u hide:) By the way luv is b'full nly if u have enf money and accomodation or luv gets ruined and all these things only job can gives u not luv and my dearest friend i got a big broad couple ov hands dat are gettin hard rite nw 2 crush sm hot dudes, so watch it over ur luv only. C ya buddy...
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
9 Jan 10
My friend I can understand that you need job right now but you know money can not buy love.Love is life of valuable enjoyments.You may get job a number of times but you would not be able to find the same love once you lost.So love your woman than your job because money comes and go but love once gone never comes back and if you find another love but you would not be able to love that person in a similar way.And I pray that you get your job so that i can get your love:)
@PastorP (1170)
• United States
13 Jan 10
Hi thugstyle21.
Yes, we can say that because the Church per Eph. 5 is the Bride of Christ.
Studying the Holy Scriptures, we can see simply that Yahweh = Christ. Yahweh said (in Hosea and other passages) He was married to Israel.
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
17 Jan 10
Hello Sir.Would you introduce yourself? I found you a wise man with a vast knowledge.I would like to stay in contact with you.
@VANILLAREY (1470)
• India
13 Jan 10
You can be glad that you were not married to such a girl. There are such people in this world, you were unlucky to be involved with such a person.
You can warn your friends about this girl.
@vishalkgupta (373)
• India
18 Jan 10
This is the spirit friend, keep it up but it is so easy to tell others to do so.
@johnnykay (1056)
• Hungary
16 Jan 10
well, we have the same story i guess! my girl left me yesterday... so.. i know what you feel! but don't give up! you (and i hope i can say "we") will find the right girl!
have a nice day!:)
@umamun (10)
• India
13 Jan 10
When I see any boy with his girlfriend, then I become jealous of them. Because I didn't love with any girl in my life but I want to, though I have passed 23 years of my life. I am curious for love, for girls.
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
13 Jan 10
Friend you need no thing like love.Only thing you are curious about is physical relation with a female.So take my advice find it in a place where you can pay for it.:)
@coffeeshot (3783)
• Australia
17 Feb 10
You mean you had an affair? LIke you cheated on your partner? Or do you just mean you were romantically involved with this girl.
Don't worry, I had my heart broken last year. It was the worst thing that ever happened to me. I never realised how bad it is.
It will get better but only with time. You'll be thinking differently in the future.
@23uday (2997)
• India
9 Jan 10
hi friend,
I think you fall in love with a girl is broken your heart.In my opinion love is a
pain but true love will be success.One side love that girl is not suitable
for you.
have a great day.
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
9 Jan 10
Truly said friend that true love is sucessful.And its a saying that first love is never successful because its a human nature that a man gets attracted to a woman since his mentality starts maturing up and he feels like its love but as the time goes on there is nothing like love left between them but it feels more like an infatuation.And that's what it is.A true loves comes with a better understanding and maturity not because you have a physical relation.And this is the reason why love comes back again in one's life and it depends upon you how you take it.So love is never be a pain even it is then it is because of your evil deeds.
@tluanga (767)
• India
19 Feb 10
iqbal i know how i feel cos i have been in that situation one or twice. You may feel the world has turn its back on you. You may not recover from your lost(?) for quite sometime. But as they say times heal anything. And also remember there are thousands of fish in the sea.sometimes we think that we catch the big one, but it slip out of our hand and got away. But thats ironically is the chance for us to catch another bigger fish. You may not believe me now, but with my experience i know that you will definitely catch bigger fish. Live your life and move on....
@mjcookie (2271)
• Philippines
8 Jan 10
I hope you stop being afraid to fall in love again. I know it's not that easy to move on, but love is never flawless. It can be really painful--I think it isn't love that you felt if you didn't feel hurt at all. Don't get traumatized by your first experiences--they're there to teach you lessons such as tolerance. So that by the time you're ready again, you are more mature emotionally.
Love is the greatest emotion that one could give and get, so I hope you try seeing it positively rather than associating it with just pain.
It takes time to heal. You'll meet that person someday. She will come at the right time. =)
Cheer up... :D
@dirky007 (101)
• China
22 Jan 10
I personally quite agree with mjcookie! Love is the most fantastic thing in the word,which has been testified by great love stories like romeo and juliet in western countries.So love itself do not have anything wrong,it's u who have a problem ,u should find fault from yourself .In this way ,you will eventually find your perfect match!
@lightdiamond (147)
• United States
8 Jan 10
Hii iqbal21 i think you just havent found the right person
im sure you will!!
good luck to you!!
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
13 Jan 10
Hello light.Would you please elaborate this point of yours how to find the right person??
@kat_isobal (35)
• Philippines
25 Jan 10
just coz u got hurt by one person doesn't mean a new love will do the same to you.
ok? it's a matter of how u manage ur relationship, u know.
@damalimcpherson (251)
• Jamaica
15 Feb 10
not because some one broke your heart in the past you are going generalize everyone else to be the same. life is all about making mistakes and get up back on your feet in order to rise again. if you continue to view life in that way then your are in trouble because life is not perfect and no one is perfect. do not allow your past to really affect your emotional happiness.
@AntronReshaud (13)
• United States
15 Feb 10
I can see why you would think love hurts. But it doesnt. Love doesnt give up on us and surely love is anything but painful. People are disappointing, inconsistent and sometimes even selfish when it comes to the matters of the heart. I learned a few months ago how hurtful being in LOVE can really be, but after evaluating myself I realized that I was willing to give up on something that created me to become the evolved young man that I am all because of someones faux intentions or more likely their lack of readiness.
Okay so you cheated, not that I'm favoring it yet I cannot judge you for it. People have reasons for what they do and why were lead to places we never envisioned for ourselves. All I can tell you is to go with the fow. Let life and love happen. Its not the most comfortable feeling but trust me it will get better my friend.
@beauty_denia (41)
• Philippines
16 Feb 10
It is normal to feel pain after a heart break but pain that last for so long can lead to depression. I hope this things are taken into consideration. When a person is in-love or open his / her heart to someone, happiness and pain will always be present or unavoidable. There is no such thing as perfect relationship or perfect love. Pain is not there to put a person down but will serve as a reminder or a lesson that needs to be learn. Love is infinite and is the most wonderful feeling or experience.
@ravi_fab69 (1)
• India
15 Feb 10
dear friend iqbal ......don't lose u r heart......the 1 who left u was not made 4 u ....u r special 1 is somewhere near u just u want a right time.....my heart broked 3 times .....n i was thinking just like u ....but finally i got a girl who loves me more than i do......and now i m happy with her ....n forgot my previous breakups ....soon v r geting married....so might don't loose heart ....u'll find a better companion in future ....GOODLUCK
