Do you believe in 2nd chances? 3rd? 4th?...5th?

Philippines
January 8, 2010 11:44am CST
Do you believe in 2nd chances? 3rd? 4th?...5th?
5 responses
@xlinzixx (510)
8 Jan 10
i do believe in second chances but it depends whats its about if a guy cheated on me then he'd be straight out the door. i believe once a cheat always a cheat. it would depend on the situation i guess. happy mylotting
• Philippines
8 Jan 10
well, if its about relationship with a guy --- I haven't tried giving someone a second chance and most specially its about lying and cheating...
@Genericbe (1376)
• Philippines
9 Jan 10
In my opinion, I believe in many chances but it depends on what situation in life need such chances. There are chances that happen on several counts like in family relationships. When a part of the family said sorry then ask for another chance, given that chance , then committed the some mistakes again until several chances being given, that goes in multiple giving of chances by his family for he is part and important to the family. In exams, most common till third chances only. There are some instances in life that cannot hold more than three chances given. It depends on the person to give the chances and person who will accept the chances.
@cryw0lf (1302)
• United Kingdom
8 Jan 10
I don't believe in 2nd chances in relationships either to be honest. I mean... as humans we know the difference between right and wrong, and we know exactly what a relationship entails, a person should be loyal. If a guy cheats on me, that's it, he's out the door too... because i know i would never be-able to forgive him for the pain he'd caused me etc. I cannot forgive, and i cannot forget. A man, or women even, that can't do it first the right time, won't beable to do it right the second time. Common sense in a relationship, you're loyal to one person until you break up, or unless you discuss an open relationship.
@Amigone (43)
• United States
8 Jan 10
I do not believe in second chances in relationships. Once you are broken up that is it. If the second chance oppertunity comes before the break up then that is one thing. You are trying to save something from dying. If they mess up after that then it's over. It's clear that they are not going to change. By giving the person multiple chances you are saying that you accept thier behavior. If it's a question of getting back together after a split then I say don't do it at all. If your relationship was such that it was worth having then you would still be in it. By giving a nother go you're just wasting your time.
@magara (31)
• Philippines
8 Jan 10
I do believe in patience and underderstanding. Coz people make mistakes. We are not perfect so why can't we give others a chance to change.May it be a 2nd, 3rd, 4th or so forth chance to make a difference and grow up.