Does your husband/spouse help u to finish domestic job?
By emediloy
@emediloy (701)
Indonesia
January 8, 2010 11:46am CST
hi mylotter...today i have so many domestic job which is i have to finish.clean the house, washing dishes,laundry,cooking,and so on.sometimes i get bored of my rutinity,but u know as a housewive,it is my responsibility to do that.my husband doesn't help much,but i understand that.i think he must be tired of his job at the office.sometime i wondering if he could help me at home,but i don't want to push him.i just want to know,does your husband/spouse help u to finish your domestic job?
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3 responses
@sweetbali4you (359)
• India
8 Jan 10
hi emediloy,
my father help my mom on domestic work but when he is in mood to help my mom.if he had no mood to help my mom he never but sometimes he do.
@yogambal_64 (1014)
• India
9 Jan 10
Hi emediloy, Yes my husband helps me with all possible jobs in the house. I need not ask him to do and he himself does any pending work or the routine work. In fact, sometimes I am unable to finish all chores when he is not in station and feel helpless alone.
@agv0419 (3022)
• Philippines
9 Jan 10
I'm not married yet but my father doesn't help my mother anymore in household chores. When we were young he does help my mother like washing the clothes or dishes but you can't depend on him in other household chores like cooking or cleaning. Now he is too lazy to help us and sometimes my mother got angry with him because he doesn't initiate to help her.
@Jae2619 (1483)
• United States
15 Jan 10
For the most part, no my husband doesn't help me with my houehold work. He works 12 hour shifts, but is out of the house for 16 hours with drive time to and from work, so by the time he get's home all he really wants to do is rest, eat and go to bed to get up and do it again the next day. When I am sick, or after I had our chiildren and recent surgery, he done what he needed to, to keep the house in order. I sometimes feel like he could do more around here but know that he works very hard at his job and after working the hours he does, I don't feel I have the right to ask him to help, so I don't.
