single for life or marry early!!??

I would prefer being single for life.it will be a great disaster if I married early.marriage is a big responsibility.I am currently 26 years old,and I am so totally unprepared and scared of a lifetime commitment.while having kids are fun,it will be difficult if you can't raise them properly.I guess I am still way immature to handle such lifetime commitment.

I actually agree with your opinion. but if you do not ever think to have a child, that you can make your successor. inherit what you have. it can be passed on to people in need, but there own pleasure to give to your child.

Hello Minamikesh! Single for life or marry early? I guess I will choose nothing between the 2. I mean I want to get married but not that early. Marry not because I got pregnant already or marry not because of pressure whether it is family or peer pressure or pressure coming from the society. I don't want all of that. And I don't want to be single for life. I have 2 aunts who are single until now, they are 60 plus years old, and I can say that it is very lonely. I think hunger and overpopulation are results of wrong decisions we take, I hate to say this but people nowadays are getting irresponsible for their actions. When you are in a relationship you need to be careful toavoid ugly consequences. Some marry early because they already got pregnant, even if the parents are not yet emotionally and financially ready. Some just make and make babies every year without thinking if their resources can still feed the entire family (if you get what I mean). Proper planning should come hand in hand when you want to raise a family. You need to think of your kids future, so both of you must have work to support the family. As for me, when the right time comes, when I am already settled and ready on everything I will build my own family. I respect your outlook/views if you want to stay single though. and I definitely support you on your plans on helping out the needy. God bless your heart.

if this whole world will think like you then how the next generation would come to existence. if you have this much of great thinking then your children might have even great vision than you. marrying and having children is not the greatest achievement. it is your work and responsibilities which makes your life meaningful. though it is very backward thinking. now women are going to far in career with a husband. so marriage is also necessary in life. if you have thoughts that marrying someone will degrade your dream then it is wrong. you can achieve what ever you want with a married life. after all from which country do you belong to.