Do you have got through bad times? How do you have faced it ?
By think_twice
@think_twice (553)
India
January 10, 2010 8:49am CST
I have still going through a bad phase, but it was terrible 4 to 5 years before the current time. It has shown me several dangerous situations, it has shown me all the ugly faces of life, I lost my father, I have lost my girl friend, I lost my job several times, I was cheated several times with various faces, my brother & his wife cheated me and my mother, every time I was running out of money when I need it badly and so on. Still I haven't left the field & faced it every time from the front though I was the loser all time.
It is so painful that sometimes it compels me to think of my own death. But still something, you may call it "love for life" or "lust for life" returns me to this world again.
Do you have faced it so ugly way in your life?
4 responses
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
10 Jan 10
Bad times , what are they? Everyone has bad times in life. These come when a person luck may have ran off or the particular time period is not that good enough for that individual at that instances of so. Its true that you have said so. nobody can change it , it is god the one man who can change it for us pray to god and hope for it would be solved . you need not be afraid but be positive and face them in all possible ways you can so.
@think_twice (553)
• India
10 Jan 10
I have very strong faith in god now and it was also before. But instead of all these and my regular prayings nothing has saved me from having such bad experiences in my life. I am not getting feared because I have seen such terrible situations no one can think. Nowadays what I am doing is continuing my normal work and deeply hoping for bad things to change.
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
13 Jan 10
Dude just chill about bad times,face them up with a strong heart and a smile.Let the problem comes to you,just keep your head up and think what worse it could do to you. Feel like you can find a way to get out of it.::))))
All the best.
@thugstyle21 (419)
• India
13 Jan 10
And my friend remember this thing after every dark night there is a bright day after.Just keep ya head up.
@crazydaisy (3896)
• Canada
10 Jan 10
I know how you feel I been threw the pretty well the same things that you have and thought the same things of doing but some how I never do.I keep saying it's going get better tomorrow not worst.They always said look it can't get any worst but better.
cd
@crazydaisy (3896)
• Canada
13 Jan 10
I felt the same way you just have to think it's going get better and not worst think of something you want.
cd
@think_twice (553)
• India
13 Jan 10
I do believe in the same thing but the problem is it's very difficult to believe when situations turns worse. It's like wave of bad things coming one after another, consistently & nowhere to hide, nowhere to escape. But that wonderful thing "lust for life" or "love for life" like an incense stick burning in complete darkness lingering the burning desire for life. You know, sometimes I am thinking nowadays that there is definitely someone behind the scene, someone very strong, someone who remains with us when everything & everyone leaves us, someone who cares for us. I am through this response to you expressing my gratitude and obey for that noble spirit. Thank you.
@plantit1 (297)
• United States
10 Jan 10
I know so well the bad luck streak that comes knocking at times. My husband lost his job, we were forced to move out of our mobile home after living there for 25years because the owner of the land decided to sell it to build condos on. We moved to another state a cold one at that, still no jobs. I got one and got fired for being too slow they said. I had never been fired before. Sometimes I feel like Im at my wits end but yes love of life and the challange to go forward keeps me going. We are stronger that we know. Hang in there love, it will get better.
@think_twice (553)
• India
10 Jan 10
Yes sometimes situations become so worse that is beyond our thought. And I call it bad times when it comes blow by blow. One who faces it knows how painful everything at that time, even it compels to leave your every hope and every faith in life. That lust for life or love for life is the only friend that guides to believe that time will change and it happens. But the scars remain.
@Greentea812 (133)
• China
5 Feb 10
Hi Myloter friend,I am so sorry to hear about your sad situation.and I will pray for you ,hope everything will become better by your side.
for me ,the worst thing is not a unkonw future,but you can see what will happened and you just can't make any change.we were happy when we were little kids because we can imagine the better future,as long as we grow up,I find it is hard to make any effort to change the life orbit which has been setted by anyone eles(who knows?)most of people in my country lives a same boring life, the only way to get better is to change your own mind and be positive,optimistic,thankful.if so,frustration can only make people strong.
hope you can feel better by above words,have a nice day!
