Should I contact a match for me on a dating site?

Hello and welcome to mylot. I think that internet dating used to be taboo - but in this day and age (especially with this new decade), I think it'll actually become a norm to meet people online. Of course, you have to be extra careful as you don't really know the person on the other side. Anyway, my $0.02 - wait til' he contacts you. If he doesn't, it must not meant to be. If he does - then the ball is in your court, lady. Good luck and have fun!

Hello there! Welcome to MyLot. Well, speaking from experience here, I didn't meet my husband on a dating site but found him in a Chat Room. That, in itself is unusual because (like you say) internet dating and chat rooms can be a hit and miss affair. However, I have seen adverts on the television for the site you mention and - as dating sites go - they seem pretty genuine to me, so I say, "Go for it!" with this chap. I like the idea you only have one match...could it be fate that you contact him I wonder? You have nothing to lose and you seem intelligent to me, so you won't be led astray by some undesirable..who I don't think would be on Eharmony in the first place. Good luck with your decision, whatever it may be.