cupid and pysche

Is love blind? No I do not think so but it does cloud ones judgement somewhat. Love is one of the puzzles of life. There is a reason for the saying "I'm on the outside looking in, while you're on the inside looking out". It's a whole new view. There is definitely some truth about are we really in love with what we see or what we perceive them to be. Everyone knows that all people look good in moonlight or candlelight.lol...sorry little joke. I always say there are two ways to look at everything. You ask about the saying "absense makes the heart grow fonder"....the opposite is "out of sight out of mind". Love is a dangerous weapon. It must be used wisely, there's the saying "love kills slowly." I do think that most people are turned on by the superficial appearance. But as times goes on then you have to ask some questions. That would probably be considered lust. I do think that people can have unconditional love without limitations. But I do think is it rare that it starts out that way. As we grow older then we really see what matters. I think when you find your true soulmate then nothing will be missing. All the pieces to your puzzle will be accounted for. Now step back and look at the picture. : p