she/he always wants attention
By novelcai
@novelcai (600)
Philippines
January 10, 2010 6:24pm CST
with healthy communication and clear expectations about time spend together, the lack of attention shouldn't be a problem. but have you ever experienced that your love one demands you more attentions even you didnt noticed that your not taking her/him for granted? share me your experienced.
2 responses
@raynejasper (2322)
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
..hi.. when my husband was yet my boyfriend, I really want him to spend more time with me.. maybe that's for most of the girls.. we really wanted to feel that we're special.. not that we are taking advantage of our boyfriends that we wanted more attention, but we just want to feel we're the priority.. This means we are very much attached to our boyfriend..But we also understand if our boyfriend have other commitments.. I don't know for other women.. now, when we got married and I was pregnant, I would always want my husband near me.. I would even cry if my husband leaves me.. for men, I just don't know..
@sanjuks_j (193)
• India
11 Jan 10
i think man is also not apart from such kind of feeling. he also want to spend more time with his loved one. after getting married or some long time relationship this is confirmed for a man that his love is not going elsewhere now, so he start giving more time to his other commitments. commitment towards work of course, and for that he might have to be away from his love for sometime, but girls can't accept this so easily.
@classicemcegy79 (152)
• United States
11 Jan 10
Hello novelcai!!
Hmmm... to answer your question, yes. Before, I had a significant other who was a really nice kid. But then s/he began to email me even when we saw each other nearly every day. Then s/he started emailing me every hour or so after the work day. Finally, I told him to please stop, because I'm not on the computer all day checking emails. S/he got very angry, whined, and continued. So I broke it off with my now-former significant other.
S/he then proceeded to badmouth me, tried to engage their friends into contributing to an attempt consisting of a fake person winning my heart and then breaking it, and then wouldn't stop complaining about me for several years.
It was quite the disaster.
