Have you deleted any friends in mylot from your list?

@mayka123 (16604)
India
January 11, 2010 2:29am CST
Was just clicking on some of the profiles of my friend here on mylot and found that I have been deleted from many lists. Have resent friend request to some of them. Looks like that since I was not too active here last year many have deleted me from their list of friends. Do you delete friends who are not regular in your discussions?
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
11 Jan 10
Hello mayka.....well to tell you the truth I have not bothered to check if I have been deleted from any ones' list....Even if any one has,I dont blame them since I was inactive for so amny months.......Any way what matters is that all my close friends have kept me in their list intact hoping to see me back in action one day..... Oh and I dont delete friends who do not respond to my discussions.....On the other hand I love those friends who are always starting new and intersting discussions and am eager to respond to their discussions even if they never bother to respond to mine...he..he...
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
11 Jan 10
Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm typical UJ
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
11 Jan 10
how can i dare any such thing
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
11 Jan 10
are you type casting me cupid?
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@vandana7 (100617)
• India
11 Jan 10
Hi mayka, no, and I have no intentions what so ever. I have about 12 pages full of friends, and I haven't got enough yet. :) I just want somebody to solve a mystery though. I find many young people asking to be my friend. My profile clearly mentions I am 50 years old. But when a 19 year old sends me a request, I find it amusing. This is because I wonder what can we discuss. :) But may be they came across one of my posts, and found something that seemed agreeable to them. That is the reason I accept them in the list. Mind you, some of them are rather witty, and fun to be with. :)
@mayka123 (16604)
• India
11 Jan 10
When someone joins in new here they just want to make friends thinking that more friends will give them more responses and more discussions to reply to. Which sometimes is true because there are many like me who respond first to notifications received from friends and then look at other discussions. I dont think many look at the age factor when sending friend request. I too have friends who are younger than my kids!!! But sometimes it is fun interacting with them.
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
11 Jan 10
Vandana! Users do not look your profile (read age) closely and they feel that you are 'young' enough to be their friend. In fact it is a compliment to you that younger users also wish to be in your friends' list. Such is the 'beauty' of mylot and here you could be friends with any age group and can feel comfortable.
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@vandana7 (100617)
• India
11 Jan 10
Hi mayka, I have to agree with your reasoning. I keep wondering how they find us though. :)
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@sacmom (14192)
• United States
11 Jan 10
I deleted one. But it wasn't because of inactivity. It was due to them making a comment that was uncalled for on one of my pictures. I don't like deleting people from my friends list if I can help it. I for one never understood why anyone would delete someone from this list just because of inactivity. Though that is their choice, if they so wish to do so. However, it's not like they're going to get clogged with a bunch of notifications from these friends if they don't delete them as they aren't even around to start any new discussions anyway. And no, I won't delete those that aren't regulars to my discussions either. I don't mylot that way. If they want to respond to it, fine, if not that's okay too. People on my friends list aren't required to respond just because they are on my friends list. If anything I'd much rather them respond to my discussions because it caught their interest and they could relate to it. Happy mylotting!
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• Singapore
11 Jan 10
Hi mayka123, Not that I recall. I don't see any point of deleting friends, not even when they stop being active. I just leave them there. That said, I have been at the receiving end of being deleted. Sometimes they apologize and explain that it is because I was not being active anymore. You see, there is no MAX limit for friends on your list so... Anyway, initially I was a bit hurt, especially after being deleted by some friends whom I thought had been rather chummy with me. I got over it and moved on. Now I don't really care either way. But for me, I choose to leave friends as they are on my list and not delete them.
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• Singapore
12 Jan 10
Oh honestly I didn't realize it since I don't check my friend list. What comes, comes. Sure, I will add you again as you requested. But you are probably gonna delete me again when I go inactive, will you?
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Jan 10
oh my I did delete you as I thought you had really left, ask me again, I feel awful as I hesitated then went ahead. am so sorry 'honestly. I am waiting now for longer periods of time as I do want to keep old friends. will accept you. sorry.
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
11 Jan 10
Hi dear well, i do delete few friends from my list but these are those where are not only idle since long but they never participated in any of my discussion, they just added me as a friend but no interaction at all. but i wonder who are those friends who have nerves to delete active and nice friends like u. and i onder why u r sending them friends request again??????????? take care Zass
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@mayka123 (16604)
• India
11 Jan 10
There are some friends on mylot whom I like very much....I mean I like their discussions and I suddenly found that I am no more on their friend list....so I sent them a request again....so what if they do not like me!!!!!!
@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
11 Jan 10
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm u have point so lagi raho
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
11 Jan 10
wow mayka...Cupidjee has nodded his approval for you to request friends to add you ....How cute......
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
11 Jan 10
Hi dear, I have not deleted any friends from my list except the banned members but recently I have started a discussion on the same topic which is deleted by the admin. I have learnt from the responses from people that many are updating their friend’s list and deleting inactive friends (long time). But they prefer to stay with the close friends irrespective of their activity. I know you changed your job and you were not active for few months. I won’t dare to delete you even if you say a good bye to mylot.
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
13 Jan 10
Rose, there is no question of deleting close friends like you and MaykaActually I missed a lot of your company in mylot.
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@mayka123 (16604)
• India
13 Jan 10
I had posted a response to this yesterday but it seems to have disappeared!!! I wonder why your discussion on this topic was deleted!!! I know friends like you will always keep my name on their list. And all of you dare not say good bye to me!!!
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
11 Jan 10
Hi Sree ..tahnks for not daring to delete me too from your friends list even though I was inactive for a long time......It would have broken my heart if you had.....
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• India
11 Jan 10
I never deleted any friends in mylot and i never rejected any friends request.So far i maintain a friendly relation ship with all members.
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@mayka123 (16604)
• India
11 Jan 10
Hello, Like you I too have not deleted any friends till date nor rejected any friend request.
• United States
12 Jan 10
There are only two reasons I delete a friend. one I find we will be bumping heads on posts Or i find that a friends hasn't been here in a month or two.Oh there is third is I find they have left My Lot.
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@lynnchua (3412)
• Singapore
21 Jan 10
No, I don't delete any friend here on mylot even they are not active here or not being here for quite some time. Never tried or even think about that before, but if I'm active and had not since a regular friend here that had not being posting I will check their profile here once in a while and start to wonder what had happened to them. sort of stupid.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
11 Jan 10
hi mayka not many just those who have been gone a long long time. I know like myself life comes up and stops us and we cannot get back right away so do not delete until the absence is really old, then I think this person is no longer here.
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@mayka123 (16604)
• India
13 Jan 10
Many of us access the net from our place of work. So at times we are irregular for various reasons. I have changed my job and am not able to come online too often.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
12 Jan 10
Yes, i have. I go through every once in awhile & delete people who have never contacted me. I have wondered why they wanted to be on my friend's list to start with.
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@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
12 Jan 10
Hello mycal23,No,i've never experienced deleted any of my friends here in mylot.All of them are there in my list of friends. I don't have plan to delete either active or inactive.Have a nice day!
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@mayka123 (16604)
• India
12 Jan 10
Hi Hazelrose, It is good that no one has deleted your name from their list till date. I was not so lucky!!!
@Fulltank (2882)
• Philippines
12 Jan 10
I haven't deleted any of my friend whom I already accepted. But I do deleted those pending friends request which I find not logging to myLot for quiet some time now.
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@mayka123 (16604)
• India
12 Jan 10
I too have deleted some pending friend requests that I had made over a year ago. Some of them were active but I do not know why they did not respond to my request.
@maria1081 (1251)
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
So far, I havent deleted anyone in my friend's list. I can see no reason to delete anyone. If ever I see one I would say goodbye to her/him before deleting. This is what I do, if someone will give me his/her referral link I would entertain it as long as I'm interested but if not I would just ignore it.
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@mayka123 (16604)
• India
12 Jan 10
I too have not deleted anyone. It does not make a difference to me if my friend list is a few pages longer with inactive members, I had only deleted a couple of guys who kept sending me vulgar messages!
@May2k8 (18391)
• Indonesia
11 Jan 10
Since there are on my list I wouldn't delete them, and if their profile is gone never come back then probably I delete them from my list.
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@Java09 (3075)
• United States
11 Jan 10
People are supposed to choose their friends based on their discussions.If their discussions aren't interesting to me I do delete them.I usually go through my friends' discussions and respond to them,and they respond to mine,but it's pointless if they never post anything of interest to me.So I have to say yes I do delete them and keep friends that have discussions that peak my interest.
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@ybong007 (6643)
• Philippines
12 Jan 10
I did not and never intend to. Its because not everyone can be active here on mylot. Some come and some go and it's always good to hear from friends who've been away and starts posting again. For me the more i have friends in my friends list the better. Cheers!
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• Hong Kong
11 Jan 10
Hi mayka123, I did delete one of the friends,who was an Indian, from the list as he/she kept sending junk messages to me and links. Some are dirty movies or games which need to pay. It was so annoying. Have a nice day! agonyaunt69 (10:23pm 11 Jan 2010, Hong Kong time)
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• Philippines
12 Jan 10
I dont yet deleted any friend/s here in mylot because i only have 2 friends yet.I want to have many many friends here in my lot to talk a lot of things regarding in online business and online opportunities and online systems.If there is a necessity to do delete my friend/s I think the friend that are spammers and snobers.I dont like people who are spammers because i get tire deleting there responses and request.And also they are scammers.
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@stand87 (664)
• Bulgaria
11 Jan 10
Until now I didn't delete anybody. I think that it's good to have more friends even not that active one. Well, some of them are maybe not that regular in the discussions but where's the big deal :)