Do you even remember and keep in touch with your former boyfriend?

January 11, 2010 5:40am CST
In mordern world,many young people have more than one girlfriend or boyfiend,so are you still miss your past lovers?Do you want to be with he or her again? Now I am single ,although there are many boys have expressed their love to me.In so far as I don't have any idea.Maybe I just miss my former boyfriend,who love me very much just like I do.But we must bring up in the view of some causes.Since now I can't even forget him so that I don't accept others' affection.
4 responses
divineathena
@divineathena (1746)
• United States
12 Jan 10
I am in a relationship with a man who does not like me having guy friends. And if I keep friendship with a former boyfriend he might just get really mad. But I would not do it anyway. But I will be honest about one thing. I actually tried keeping in touch with the exboyfriend before this man came in my life. I wanted him as a friend, but wanted something more. Unfortunately, it was too late. I realized I did not love him anymore and thus did not want him back. He lives in another country now. I hope he is doing well.
daisycc1314
@daisycc1314 (31)
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12 Jan 10
I think you are right. If we have a good man who love us and care for us with us ,why should we value the relationship and live a happy life without forgetting the past? But if that man haven't show up,I think we can sill keep in touch with the ex-boyfiend just as a common friend. Good luck !
divineathena
@divineathena (1746)
• United States
13 Jan 10
I thought I could take him as a friend. In fact, I had no feelings for him when we started the friendship. But he would always try to probe me about whether I missed him and thought about him. It was really getting on my nerves.
magic9
@magic9 (980)
• China
11 Jan 10
well, things are a little different for me. I do have contact with my former. He has got married and has a daughter. but we still help each other, he is very helpful to me.
william_1980
@william_1980 (6)
• China
11 Jan 10
I think you are great. Most of people don't do that.
daisycc1314
@daisycc1314 (31)
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12 Jan 10
Maybe some people will do like this.That is because the adults think this matters more matureed than yong. So have you got married ,either?Does your husband or boyfiend or your former's wife mind this?
berryliciousme
@berryliciousme (1003)
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
I do not keep in touch with former boyfriends. That's because I do not see the point anymore of still communicating with them since the relationship was over. Well, some people are lucky to have preserved the friendship with their ex-boyfriends or ex-girlfriends but it is different in my case. I am the type that would rather move on than dwell on the past.
daisycc1314
@daisycc1314 (31)
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12 Jan 10
Yeah,I got it. Thank you for posting . Have a good day!
amyson
@amyson (3498)
• Philippines
11 Jan 10
nope, once it is over i already mark a period on it their no way to renew again. i learn my lesson and never like to go back to the past it only makes me remember the heartbreak.
daisycc1314
@daisycc1314 (31)
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12 Jan 10
Ah..But not every relationship end up with hurt.If both of you love each other very much,however,you must bring up because of your family members or other factors.Just like Romio and Juliet. So will you still love him or her?Do you also want to have a contact with him or her?