How does it feel if your boyfriend says "I'm breaking up with up."

I have never experienced that, as I was fortunate enough to marry my first love. We've been married for almost 3 years, and we are very happy together. as for your statement about who breaks up with who, I think there are as many men out there who break up with women as women who break up with men.

I`m not agree that most of the case women break up with his boyfriends.I`m sure it`s not true because I know that a relationship depends on two of them.Of course, everything is possible and I surrely know that because my boyfriend broke with me a few month ago and it`s really hurts in the beggining but it`s not the end.The best think you can do if some man broke with you and hurt you is to go on without showing you pain.If he loves you and see how independend are you he will come back.Otherwise,he is not the only one!And the life must go on!:)

It stinks. Although it only happened to me once, and it happened fairly early on in our relationship. I was 17 and the boyfriend was about 24. The guy said it to me over the phone at my work - what a jerk! He said I was too young for him . . . that I was just starting college - and he wanted to move onto his career. Fine, whatever. It was dumb and I was stunned because he never talked about how he felt before. I was hurt, but honestly not too hurt - like I said, it happened early on. BUT - 2 years later, the guy got his career going - but love was missing in his life. By then I already had a great boyfriend. The ex said if anything should ever happen between my new boyfriend and I, he would want to take me back (some stupid thing he said that I knew him better than anyone else). BUT TOO LATE!! My new boyfriend was my true love - eventually we got married and had kids. So in my case, for the ex the break up with me was the best thing that ever happened to me - hee hee.

It will hurt definitely but you can give credit to the guy for saying it. The hardest thing in a relationship is saying goodbye. Others just leave and you'll never hear anything from them again. Saying goodbye takes courage and only a few have this courage since most usually find excuses if they no longer want to be in that relationship. Cheers!