Why was he not willing to share his bad mood with me?

China
January 11, 2010 7:55pm CST
yesterday,I felt that he was in bad mood from his short message,so I asked whether my deduction is right.He gave me yes but didn't plan to talk anything about why.That make me upset too.I guessed the reason for his spirit,me or something else.If me,what bad thing did I do?If not me,what things he can't tell me?I am so confused.
7 responses
@anc457 (186)
• Thailand
24 Feb 10
maybe you're just thinking too much. just wait for a while- give him time to sort things out. sometimes the more we ask, the more they get away. just be patient.
• Philippines
5 Feb 10
maybe you just need to give him a little bit space to compose himself,to cool down his bad mood
13 Jan 10
I guess he just needed some space, some people find the best way to deal with their problems is to sort them out on their own without talking about it with anyone else, they find that they can manage that way.
• China
13 Jan 10
It's evident that he is puzzled by something,you should try to attention to his feelings and find out fact.
@skbrence (475)
• Philippines
12 Jan 10
Maybe, he would like carry it alone so that you won't be problematic as he is right now. Maybe he just wants you to live a happy life rather than him making you sad and problematic.
@cynaider (10)
• India
12 Jan 10
maybe he must have thought not to disturb or upset you by sharing his problem??
• United States
12 Jan 10
Sometimes we are all in a bad mood but since there is really nothing anyone can do to help, we really do not want to talk about it. When my guy is in a bad mood, I just ask if there is anything I can do and if he says 'No', I figure it is NOT me he is unhappy with and give him some space to work through it. If it is important he will tell me about it later when he is calmer. Try not to take it all so personally, trust me, if it is you, he will let you know. However, that said, if the bad moods are happening all the time....I would react differently. Good Luck to you....