What do you value most in life?
By biggerb
@biggerb (2024)
India
January 12, 2010 1:57am CST
Do you value your family, realtionships, money or material things most in life.I agree we cannot survive without money but is that the only consideration.Are people more important to you or are material things more important.I would appreciate if you could answer this very honestly.
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8 responses
@sanjana_aslam (4187)
• Malaysia
12 Jan 10
hi big
i value the relationship i have with my husband the most in my life .. but as u said our relationship cant survive with money .. but we did so many times when we are totally without money, we both will break our "piggy bank" together to get some cash ~ and plan the money well to go tru that day
maybe 1 day with gods blessing i have a child i will change to value the relationship of mother/child but until than i value the "thing" in my hand ~ my husband
cheers
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@biggerb (2024)
• India
5 Feb 10
Hi!Sanjana
I have always been reading your posts and have been responding.Though oflate I am a bit laid very rarely do I log on to mylot.I have recently posted a discussion on "Intention Creation". I would be happy if you could read that. AnywayI just want you to think that you have a baby.I f possible you can just write it down in diary the kind of baby you visualise , a boy or a girl.Be very clear bout your thinking. Do not think of anything negative.Just think"Ihave my baby Girl".Just have faith in your thinking it will work out.Its called positive visualisation or intention creation.Many people have found this to work. I know how much you want a baby. Good Luck I assure this works.I truly appreciate your response to my discussion.Its been a very honest one.Values differ from person to person.
@reezap (7)
•
14 Jan 10
One person is unique from the other. Each has a different personality and that uniqueness makes us notice a person. For me, I like a person not because of his/her resources nor his/her looks but because I feel I can trust that person. Like coffee and milk, like soy sauce and vinegar--perfect blending, one compliment the other--that's the description. Good traits is of course an important factor, too but the best thing I guess is to look for friends who is the same feather with you.
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@pentagan12 (757)
• Philippines
12 Jan 10
Primarily, I value my health, family and loved ones. I do value all of my possessions too, may it be material or non-material thing. Well, you're asking about which among these valuable things I value the most and I would honestly say both. It is very difficult to choose only one where in fact I can hardly live if one of these important things will be missing. I love my family very much, especially my father because without him, my existence in the world could not be possible. I love my boyfriend because he completes me and he makes me happy. Without him, my life will be meaningless and dull. I love material things for they can also add happiness in our lives. Without money, we cannot buy all the things we need and we want to buy.
@Hazelrose (2179)
• Philippines
12 Jan 10
Hi biggerb,Yes of course,i love my family and they are my inspiration.But the most valued in my life is my relation to our Lord God.To serve and worship him with my family for the rest of our life.I am not materialistic,i am more on spiritual aspects of life.Although i love my family but i really love God above all.Have a nice day!
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@subiya (3)
• India
12 Jan 10
To me, my parents value more than any other personality and the money or things such as car etc. I always owe my achievements, earnings to my parents for their guidance and help in my day to day business. Without the money of course we can't do many more but it is ones confidence and capabilities that is responsible for successful life.
