nothing seems to be interesting.......did this ever happened to you!!!!!!!!!!!!!
By apsara60
@apsara60 (6610)
Israel
January 12, 2010 4:54am CST
Hi friends.....something funny is happening with me....now a days I just don't find anything interesting.......and I really don't know why....I tried to read books, write here and there, surf on Internet, interact with people, go for long walks.....spend time on beach.....watch television or movie.......play games.......but after 10 minutes I lost interest in all.....why do I feel so bored, what should I do, any suggestions....
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21 responses
@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
12 Jan 10
hi Sreekala, how are you. Thanks for your wishes and Happy new year to you too...you all are my friends...I have not forgotten anybody, but as you see from my discussion....I need your advice which you have not given.....I mean you have not replied to my discussion.... You cannot just convey your wishes and leave...
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
13 Jan 10
Hi apsara, Rose is right and I was in a hurry in the evening and by seeing you people's discussion how can I leave without attending the same. I knew that Rose is the best person to give suggestions here. After all, you felt boring in mylot and left the site too. Now I am happy you feel to sign in here and seeking our advice. Yes, I am really happy with both of your return.
It is natural to get boredom with some activities after a particular time. Some may get bore easily some can enjoy more time. Please try to divert your attention to some enjoyable activities. When you feel bore just stop the same and please stop worrying about the issue. You may feel better. Have a nice day.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
12 Jan 10
Hi Aps ...dont blame Sree........its probably time for her to leave office...and the climate in her place is horrible ...its cold and foggy...and she has to collect her 2 small kids on the way home.....So you will probably get her detailed reply tomorrow when she gets free time.......
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
12 Jan 10
Hello Aps.......Ggggrrrr I am so angry with mylot........Guess what I have till not received any notification regarding your new discussion...Yes I checked and your notification is ON....Now what is happening to mylot?To whom should I sent a complaint?.........I heard there is someone called Alice hanging around who will redress our grievances.........DEAR ALICE I DID NOT GET ANY NOTIFICATION ABOUT MT BEST FRIEND'S NEW DISCUSSION...EITHER YOU TAKE SOME ACTION OR I WILL QUIT FROM MYLOT......
Hello my dear,the thing is you have been so absorbed in your routine that life has become boring for you......And you know something......"laughter is the best medicine" for this type of illness......You did a wise thing by logging into mylot....Aab gahbraoo mathe !maim aur hamara gang aap ko phir say itna khush kareemgee key aap zindagi eek nayee roop say dekhne lagogi.....And so come on to mylot every day for half an hour in the morning and half an hour in the evening .....and things will become normal for you within a few weeks.....
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
12 Jan 10
ha ha ha....dear yeh tera gussa.....I am already laughing at all your Gggggrrrrrrrrrr, and for God sake...lets not take any action.....other wise reaction can throw both of us out of mylot...., and I am sure you don't want to loose this meeting point....and I will take your tip and come to mylot, but what about you......have you given up the job....are you free now to have fun on mylot...btw.....woh khaha hai.....you know woh....to pull his legs.....ha ha ha....usse pata chalega toh he will come back in speed of 100...lol. Thanks dear now I have to go home...see you tomorrow. sweet dreams and bye
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
12 Jan 10
Hi deary.......Thank god I got your notification this time.....So I guess I will cool down and follow your advice...
And wo badmash kal zarror ayega........Any way go home with a light heart and keep smiling ...ok......And Yes I have got some respite from my job...I am free this whole month........he..he....goodnight and sleep well......you have a busy schedule tomorrow at mylot.......he..he....
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
12 Jan 10
Dearest Bala.........soooooooooo happy to see you after such a long time.......and as usual you are right...routine life has really made life so boring....and I really need a break.....but still I am in the middle of responsibilities for my house and family........may be another few years will change things......but I will take your advice and try to organise some outing...may be I will come to India, and may be I will go and visit my good friend Bala, he lives in greenery of south, he sings Hindi songs and he knows what he has to do to make me laugh....just speak HINDI..........Thanks for your reply Bala.......you refreshed so many old memories....
@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
13 Jan 10
Hi apsara!
Nice to see you here on mylot. Welcome back. You see losing interest just after 10 minutes in anything you do, appears disturbing on the surface. It does not matter much if you lose interest after 10 minutes, at least you are able to enjoy those 10 minutes nicely. If you start feeling bored from one activity, you may switch over to the another one. We all (including me) also feel the same way many a times. Actually, it is you who has to decide which activity could be of your interest. You see, when you are on-line, mylot is one of the best options, talking to friend/participating in their discussions keeps you busy and you never know when the time elapsed. Keep smiling and keep laughing! All the best to you!
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
13 Jan 10
Thanks Rose for elaborating and explaining my point about mylot.. (I do not mind if she (Aps) thinks like-wise as you have interpreted my views.)
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@dpk262006 (58678)
• Delhi, India
13 Jan 10
I also did not get any notification for your discussion and I got to know it from mylot page, it was the first one on 'today's top discussions list' in the morning.
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@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
13 Jan 10
Aps I think wahat dpk is trying to say is.......log into mylot,to his profile of course.....Try to respond to any one of his numerous discussions......After 10 minutes when you get bored with that discussion,switch to another of his discussions and so on and so forth,till you begin to tear your hair in despair?...I hope this is what u r trying to convey to her Dpk,right?......
You are right Aps dpk is so Bola its difficult to pull his legs.......bechara....
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
13 Jan 10
Hi apsara Rani
hope u must be doing well
and i also do hope that u r not yet so much bored by reading comments at my lot that u quit and dont read my response.
Well, my perception about ur problem is that u r in LOVE with some one, normally this condition arisers when some one is in DEEP LOVE and other than meeting BELOVED every thing seems boring and meaningless ( as per indian movies/novels). So i would suggest that u analyse it and then i would be in posirtion to advise further
till then, be brave, dont loose hope
byeeee
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
13 Jan 10
ohhhhhhhhhh toh abhi taak meh tumhari rani hu.....raja.....lol
cupid atleast you should have not written this nonsense to me,as you know me and my age and my life.....kya ab mere pyar karne ke din hai.....do you want to say that I have fallen into puppy love (may be grey puppy).......and to add to that you want me to analyse the situation....Rose.......where are you....looks like being away from nari shakti has really had bad effect on cupid.....he really needs some good lesson beside pullings.......ha ha ha...
sorry cupie, this is no love business.....this is life ups and downs.....right Rose....
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@cupid74 (11388)
• Pakistan
13 Jan 10
Hi Aps
come on dont be so serios, if u want serious answer, then i know u r not only too busy but too occupied as well, and current inflation and problems are adding into routine rather mechanical life. there is nothing u can do about it. And its difficult for you as well as u have experience of living in india in good days, so differnce is stark.
U know Ap, when u have so many problem at back of ur mind, not necessiraly they are in ur concious, but they exist in ur subconcious, which make u some time depress and u cant find reason of it.
So i would say the best way out is that relax, calm, have good and proper sleep atleast 3 days a week ( u can eat relaxant tablets as well). try to find out moments for urself to cheer up
Kia samjhi, khish raho
Ok
@Roseo8 (2947)
• India
13 Jan 10
Hi Aps....You took along time to answer this post..Actually "raja" had proclaimed earlier that he had a solution to your problem which he wanted to discuss with you separately and privately..........So it was only fair that you saw this discussion and answered first before I intervened..
Well Aps cupie abhi bacha hai...He has seen only the tip of the iceberg so far as life in concerned....And every waking hour he spents dreaming of love and collecting pics......Koyee bathe naheem when he matures he will able to look at life in other angles too......Isliyee usee aab chod dho.....bada honee tho...phir dekh lenghe.....
@nocturn98 (956)
• Venezuela
12 Jan 10
It seems like you keep doing the same things that you always do. Try something new. Go to places you've never been before. Fall in love. If you're married, fall in love all over again.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
12 Jan 10
Hello nocturn98, Nice reply and very true to some extent...yes life has become very monotonous.....Yes I would love to go to new place, but right now I have no time and no money.....about falling in love.....I don't repeat same mistakes again and again.....ha ha ha
@meena_artisan (39)
• Philippines
12 Jan 10
I agree... nice suggestion you got there.... ^^.... try something different, out of your routine...
@anamarialigaya (8)
• Philippines
12 Jan 10
yeah1 sometimes it really happens. it seems routinary, you should explore and discover your other talents.
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@anyket (106)
• India
13 Jan 10
hii apsara,
i am facing the same problem as you are doing right now.I feel very lonely during those times.so i wont be of much help to you. i think the best way to get over this would be socializing with people.it helps a lot.the best option would be to flirt with someone to get that spice back in your life.
@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
13 Jan 10
hello anyket....it gives me some relief to read that I am not the only one facing this problem. You must have read comments that I received and may be some tips will help you too to overcome this . Yes I agree socializing will help a lot in such situation. I am sure with time we will overcome this phase. Have a nice day.
@allknowing (137914)
• India
13 Jan 10
This is a passing phase and it all happens when there is something at the back of your mind that needs sorting out. Once you sort that out everything will be hunky dory.
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@jayavignesh (43)
• India
13 Jan 10
this is dangerous.
This is the starting phase of a person who hates life beware my friend.
get ur heads in something that interest u
@bernjane (143)
• Philippines
13 Jan 10
I've been through with that and it was so funny to think that nothings gonna entertain you even shopping. Maybe it's because of your mood that you cannot interact with so many interesting things. You feel bored and feels to do something but in anyway you can't find something's interesting.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
13 Jan 10
Hello Berjane.......Yes it is really funny that suddenly you don't like anything, but we both know that such phase is temporary, life cannot pass if we don't take interest in anything.... sooner or later we will definitely find something interesting........I am sure you already found something....and I am sure I will find too.......thanks for your reply. have a nice day.
@olisaur (1922)
• United States
12 Jan 10
I've had times like that before. I was diagnosed with depression when I was 14, and just losing interest in everything and not wanting to do anything was a part of it. I periodically get week-long periods of just wanting to be alone and do nothing...it's hard to figure out what to do when you don't want to do anything.
Maybe you could talk to a doctor or a really close friend and tell them what you're going through?
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
13 Jan 10
Hello olisaur, thanks for your reply. Yes there is lot of chances that I am going through depression...but I will give some time to myself.......I think I will be fine.....yes I think I will share my feelings with a friend rather than a doctor..... . Have a nice day.
@vishalkgupta (373)
• India
13 Jan 10
are u in love with someone apsara, bcoz this often happen with those people, but anxiety, tension, depression or failure are may be the other reason of this, do you have any of this ?
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
13 Jan 10
on no vishalgupta.....it is not love, because I have just turned 50 this December, and all that I think now a days is about future of my children.....I worry too
much for them and I think that is the reason.....yes beside love, all other things that you have mentioned above can be the reason...tension I always have....depression surely I have and failure.....most of the times..lol. Lets hope things will be better soon.......Thanks for your reply.
@stand87 (664)
• Bulgaria
12 Jan 10
I think you need love :)
You sound like you're shouting " Hey, I need love! " Sometime we all feel this way. So take it easy. Enjoy your time and the missing part of the puzzle. Maybe it's love? Don't you think?
I wanted to suggest you to try something different but as I see you tried lots of things. Try to find out what you really want! Good luck!
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
13 Jan 10
Dear Stand87, There is a very deep truth hidden in your reply. Love is something that everybody wants at every age.....one always want to feel loved and important.....but as you grow older, these thing automatically leave from back door or your life...and looking at our age we don't mind loosing them, but may be some where deep we are still longing for love....because love is like fragrance of flowers,which always gives pleasant feelings....may be you are right.....nice discussing with you.....have a great day.
@junrapmian (2169)
• Philippines
13 Jan 10
Yes, your bored! something must be missing in your life, a lovelife perhaps? You see, when you're inlove you're inspired. Everything looks lovely and even simple things look a little better. Or you must be looking for peace in your heart and contentment in life. Sometimes, when everything is laid in front of you, you can't see their importance. You're much lucky, other people has much heavier problems than you. Just appreciate life! God bless.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
13 Jan 10
Hello Junrapmain.......Thank you so much for your positive reply. You are right, we are always complaining and not appreciating what God has given us. I am already feeling better now as I suddenly feel I am much much luckier than many others around .....thanks a lot. Have a nice day.
@sudiptacallingu (10879)
• India
12 Jan 10
Hi Apsara,
Yes, I too have had these phases of complete boredom and ennui and life no longer seems worth living LOL but believe me, you’ll get out of it as naturally as you came into its grip. I really don’t know the exact reason for this, hormones maybe….*shrug* why don’t you take a vacation if you can? Maybe a new place will perk up your emotions.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
12 Jan 10
Hi sudipacallingu..........nice to see you after so long....., yes dear I know.......I really need a vacation........but a vacation free of worries........do you think this is possible.......can we free our mind from worries of our children and other personal worries...., If this was possible.....every day would be as good as vacation.......don't you think so.........lol. I think human being are only once freed from worries and that is when they die.......funny life....funny me.......ha ha ha..
@thebestmom (1104)
• Philippines
12 Jan 10
maybe you are not in the mood, or you are depressed. maybe something is happening to you that you do not realize, but you subconcious mind feels? because io too am like that right now, as long as i cant find the right business to do, my subconcious always tell me not to be happy.
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@MLEML88 (21)
• China
12 Jan 10
Haha,the topic you have posted just speaks out what i am feeling now,and that's the reason i am here.Nowadays,i feel the same with you losing my interest in everything,such as not like to eating snacks which used to be my biggest hobby.Firstly i owe it to being my grow-up,and yet ruminate it over i change my mind.That's because long time no one thinks highly of me,and encourages me and gives me the motion.So i suggest that you should try to do something significant.
Good luck for you!
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
12 Jan 10
You are just 21 dear, half of my age.....you still have time to grow up and I really don't want to grow any more.....ha ha ha. You are right..life becomes boring when no body thinks highly about you and you feel you are not important anymore.....I think that I should do something unusual, something unexpected....lol.....may be I will write a love letter to Obama.....
then I will be important news....wow....thanks dear..I will think more about such ideas.....
@Gladi472 (82)
• Romania
12 Jan 10
This ussualy happens to me after I achieve something really important like ,passing a hard exam for example, but i come around as soon as i face something new and challenging :P.I usually feel like this during summer break :).
Oh, btw i had a big case of boredom one summer so I joined a Gym :) helped the body, helped the mind ,plus i made some cool friends there :).
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@Romaniac (53)
• United States
12 Jan 10
Hello Apsara (:
I think this is a normal feeling. This happens to me often. I try and find something new to do. I try to travel, and go on vacations. maybe find a new book to read, or a new favorite TV show. Learn how to play an instrument. Piano, or guitar. Volunteer at an Animal shelter. Learn to paint, or draw. Get a new puppy! Those are always a handful, fun, and very time consuming. (I have four dogs!)
There are so many options and new things you can try to keep life interesting.
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@apsara60 (6610)
• Israel
13 Jan 10
Thank you Romaniac for your reply. Yes you are right, there are many options available if you really want to get rid of your boredom, it all depends on your guts to take a decision.......making a right decision at right time is very important and that is what I lack right now.....but hope some day I will decide and that will be real decision that will change my life............have a great day.